I always like to keep my man pleased, and while I'm really good at giving regular head, I've for some reason always had a hard time with deep throat. I psych myself out, and my gag reflex immediately kicks into overdrive. I'd really like to be able to do it, so any advice or tips on how to get past this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
I know a lot of guy like the deep throat but I will say that for myself I did not see a big difference, I mean if a girl give good normal head then that is fine with me, no need for deep throat for me. maybe you should ask him if it's important to him.
Practice makes perfect. It's kind of a hard thing to do, so you really just have to work at it. For me, watching porn actually helped. I saw those girls do it easily and it made it seem so much more possible in my mind. Then I practiced at it and have been able to do it with every guy since, except my current. He's the biggest I've ever been with, and I can come close, but I think he might just be too big.
I've always been really into deep throat but could never do it, but recently have been able to because I've learned to relax. I'm very comfortable around my boyfriend and it helps. I've noticed the easiest position to deep throat is 69, good luck! =)
Practice with a popsicle or something. It is very hard the first few times, mostly because of your gag reflexes. I still can't get it right. I figure if you give good head without deep throat, why rush into learning. If he's pleased with what you do now, no worries.
You could also try bananas, toys or other similar shaped things. popsicles may be smaller than most guys so depending on what is avg for you try something similar - 3 months ago
I agree, I have a gag reflex, and have puked on my guy. Twice. And he's so sweet that he's still dating me! lol!
When you breathe out, go down on the cock, you don't have to hold it there, you can vary the strokes, do what comes comfortable for you, and you can let him touch the back of your throat ( just tease him) then do regular, then breathe out and go down on him again. if you start gaging, just come back up. I really wish I could be as great as those porn stars that make it look so easy, but then again, I'm not a porn star.
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