Guys- Are you vocal or silent during sex?

I do moan and groan during sex, or getting blown. When I first got a blowjob the girl who was giving it said that after giving me a bj, she wished I was louder and more vocal. I was biting my tongue trying not to moan and grunt because I didn't know the etiquette then, but I do now. most women love the sound of you groaning because that means theyre pleasing u. just don't go over board

i love to make noise and talk and moan during it.and I love the girl doing the same.but some people are quieter but you can bring them out of their shell by just talking to them.

vocal, makes sex hot and more interesting.

I think I have a happy medium between the two. I like to say a girl's name and tell her how f***ing sexy she is our how good her pussy feels. But on the other hand I'm not going to give a play by play of everything I'm doing either, haha.

I think a girl's moaning is the sexiest part of sex. She can say some stuff but it can sometimes break my concentratio.n Especially when I'm about to finish. That's when I want it to just be us panting and pumping away. Maybe let me know where you want me to finish if you want it on your face or in your mouth or on your breasts or something. That's cool with me.

But when girls start asking "Are you going to come?" or "Come on baby" over and over agin I feel like I'm being pressured to come and it just makes it tough to concentrate on shooting my load. I'll usually tell you to shut the f*** up. With the least amouth of disrespect possible, haha.

Some guys are concentrating so hard not to be the minute man type of guy, so many times talking can arouse them more, and there goes their load. Other guys are not comfortable with the matter. Also, I have had girls that complained that they felt like porn stars cause I was talkign too much, so next time, I just keep my mouth shut. So best thing to do if you want the guy not to be quiet, then tell him, 'i love it when you talk dirty, etc.' Then most likely the guy won't worry much about what he says. I know that if a girl tells me that ahead of time, it makes it easier for me cause then I'm not worrying about, 'what if she doesn't like it.'

I know what you mean hun.