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How do you go about giving head for the first time?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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I've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now and I want to give him head, but I've never done it before. We've made out, he's fingered me, I've given him hand jobs, but I've never had the guts to give him head. I'm so nervous that I'm going to do something wrong and embarrass myself. I need advice on what to do when you give head for a complete beginner. No fancy stuff, just the basic blow job. Would it help if I did it after a few drinks so I'm more relaxed? How do I even initiate it without it being awkward? Once I'm down there do I just put it in my mouth or what? Eye contact? Its kind of embarrassing to be asking this but I'm so clueless! Any help is very very appreciated!

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wolfcreek (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
try looking it up online there is a how to website that tells you step by step on how. or watch a porno with him and then when he is watching go down town it will give you tips and distract him some so you can learn and listen to what way feels good for him and you
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Suck it. watch the teeth, hold or rub on the balls. you should be fine as long as you don't bite. take it in and out of your mouth, also lick on it and the balls.

guys like when you look at them, it turns us on to see you. were visual when it comes to sex.
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cuteflirtygirl (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I've been going with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we've done the same things you'd done but I've never given him heat yet either but I plan to soon. Well he's given me wonderful oral really good for the past almost 5 month. I'm clueless too. haha! I have a girl I just recently met that's giving me some good tips. She seems to be so good at it like it's so natural for her. Hopefully you'll get some sood advice on here but if I were you, I'd read through a lot of answers on this site pertaining to the subject and message one of the girls that seems to be good at it. Maybe she'll help you too. Now that I met her I can't wait to suck my guy off. Good luck!
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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I think eye contact is good. I remember when I first gave head, it was in the dark, so I could do no wrong as far as he knew. But really it just happened after we were making out, and I was on top of him. After a while he was kissing me all over my neck, then I just put my hand down his pants. I rubbed him up, then tongued him down. It happened very 'naturally'. I didn't plan it, we wanted it, and we just went with it. I actually enjoyed it a lot because he didn't expect it, and I was giving him something he wanted that he didn't even have to ask for. I just went for it. The next time you are with him, just go with the flow. Don't push yourself down there, don't force it on yourself. It, for me at least, happened just because I was in the moment, and it felt right. Sounds corny, right? Sorry ;-p. But seriously, just do what you want to it, or ask him what he wants done to it. Just make it something you both enjoy. Have fun.
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