Depends. Could be the same night or a couple days (or dates) later. No more than a week or so though. If we don't have physical chemistry I want to know as soon as possible so I don't waste my time building a fatally flawed relationship.
Why would anyone pick a number of days, weeks, or what ever? Have sex when you are horny. Stop playing the silly kid games. Personally, If I went out with a girl 3 times and didn't get any, I would be available for a fourth date.
i usually like to wait a month or two.just to kinda see how things are developing. I feel it's important to give it time or else it becomes all about the sex, as opposed to a relationship.
Damn this is scary. I hope women don't have an exact timeframe for when they "let" you have sex with them. That's some bullshit. If you both are hot for each other the first night, why not have sex? If you feel it a week later why not?
Don't put a timeframe on it though. I'd probably dump you before you got to your timeframe. Just let it happen when it happens.
Is this a technique women use to try and trap men into relationships? Because if you hold sex from a man for a couple months, and he's not getting it elsewhere, he's going to fall for you regardless when you do give it up because he hasn't had sex in 3 months. Like Eddie Murphy said, It's like giving a starving person a cracker. That will be the best cracker he ever ate if he's starving. You give a sexually starved man sex, he's going to think it's the best sex with the best woman he's ever had.
It seems pretty logical but is this why women do it?
Your point does seem pretty logical, and perhaps it's part of the reason. Perhaps we wait a while to make sure that the guy isn't in it ONLY for sex. Another valid reason may be that she doesn't want to give it up to him too early on and have him get the wrong impression of her (as in her being easy or something). I believe a combination of all of these equal the reason I haven't had sex with my guy yet. - 3 months ago
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Lol... my bad. Me... I feel VULNERABLE around a man when I have sex with them... even if a guy touches me I feel overwhelmed.... and I simply can' t bear too much emotion at once... which is why I wait. I need to know that the guy is not in there to hurt me... especially since I'm a virgin... Some guys like inflicting pain on the woman. - 3 months ago
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Okay. Good response. But why do girls have this fear of being "easy"? Does this really happen? Will guys leave you because you gave sex to them to early? That's pretty retarded. I wouldn't be going out with you if I didn't want to have sex with you. Men and women have sex. It's what we do. Having sex with a person you find attractive does not make you easy. It makes you human. Maybe it's just me. You give me hoops to jump through for sex, you'll be finding yourself by yourself. - 3 months ago
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Haha, no problem Canada.
As for your response, that's perfectly fine in my eyes. Don't have sex just to have it. But you need to be more confident iin yourself. Don't put it all on the man for your first experience. You'll just disappoint yourself. Just know that when you decide to have sex it's because you want to. Not because it's what other people think is right or what you think the guy wants. - 3 months ago
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Your really unique... must guys appreciate the hoops they have to jump through, and run when the girl doesn't make them work for her affections... I never understood it either... - 3 months ago
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I'm not afraid of a woman that wants to have sex. Maybe other dudes think that if they can get them easy another guy can get her just as easy, but that's a very punk ass mindset to have. I'm pretty confident that I can keep a sexual woman's attention.
I feel sorry for you ladies then. Supressing your sexual drive must SUCK. And I find it very unattractive. - 3 months ago
I voted a day, but that's only happened once. It was so perfect though, and I was so sure. By the time he asked if I wanted to have sex I already knew that I did. With every other guy I've been with I waited at least three weeks.
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