is there a possibility that one could have such a sexual tension between them and a friend of theirs that they really aren't physically attracted to? i feel I'm going through this, with a guy friend of mine that I've been friends with for about 2 years now, but have never actually been attracted to. we have a great mental connection which I find only grows, but that's the extent of it. the other day he had asked myself and a friend of ours if we've been having weird dreams, we answered no and he said one had to do with sexual tension between himself and a friend, but didn't say who.
Intimacy of any kind can contribute to sexual tension in someone who hasn't experienced that type of intimacy in a healthy, non sexual relationship before. Physical intimacy is the smallest part of a healthy relationship. Mental and emotional are normally close to evenly split and spiritual intimacy (which includes what happens when eye contact seems to result in lost time, etc.) makes up the largest portion of a healthy relationship. Unhealthy relationships tend to exaggerate the physical to make up for low expectations, protective mechanisms, etc. in the other categories.
So ...what exactly are you saying? lol sorry. - 3 months ago
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I guess I went too deep. Sexual tension with regard to someone you are not physically attracted to, is normally due to some form of intimacy that is not physical, and hasn't been experienced in a healthy, non physical, relationship before. See if you can figure out what it is about the mental intimacy you described, that you haven't experienced before. There is a possibility that whoever was supposed to introduce you to that experience, didn't. You may need to grieve in order to break free. - 3 months ago
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