I have always thought women want a MAN, someone who is confident and secure in themselves. Not an insecure, unconfident boy (unless they are lesbians obviously). To me part of being a man is:
1. Acknowledging the fact that you like sex, and not trying to hide it or act like a choir boy.
2. Understanding that women like sex just as much as men, and usually want a man who can let his sexual side show, doesn't hide the fact that like everyone else on the planet he likes sex, and doesn't act androgynous and so overly nice it leaves the woman wondering: Is this guy gay? Inexperienced? Does he have testosterone?
My question is this: How can I let my sexual side and nature show DAY to DAY, not necessarily on a date or in a club without coming off as lewd or sexually obsessed? How can I say without saying: Ladies, I like sex and am a sexual person by nature, but not come off as a man whore? How can I let my sexual aura be visible without acting like an obnoxious pig? How can I leave a woman thinking: I bet this guy would be fun to f*ck without coming off like a porn star? I understand that being confident, self accepting, self assured, and comfortable in my skin has a lot to do with this. What I'm more asking is how can I make those kind of impressions listed above without: saying it? How can I do it through more than just the way I carry myself?
Can I let off that vibe:
1. By the way I dress? 2. Through body language (without being obvious) 3. By the way I move? 4. When speaking, through the words and grammar I chose to use or not use?
In a nut shell, in the minds of women how can I let off a sexual vibe or aura or communicate my sexuality without appearing desperate, or too forward? How can I communicate those things in more of a non-verbal way if possible? How can I have a sexual presence?
Let women know you appreciate their sexuality without being perverted. If you do this they will know you are comfortable enough and confidant enough with your sexuality. If you think something about a woman is sexy tell her. Example: If a woman has sexy hair look her in the eye and tell her. Don't look insecure by following up with questions like "Is that your real color?" or "How long did it take to grow?" Just state a fact about how her looks are pleasing. It is incredibly flattering and sexy. Keep it simple is keeping it sexy.
first of all, don't change how you are. every girl is different. for me what be attractive, may not be attractive to someone else. if you don't want to be a "man whore" then don't be. I can't stand men who are cocky or date a lot of chicks, (and for women to date them) is disrespectful. its kinda hard to answer your question, but maybe you need a girlfriend or just a girl to hang out with.
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