Defining virginity

Virginity has to do with having intercourse. . There is a chance that the hymen might be broken earlier in life. It hurts because there is a slight tearing when it happens, but the pain goes away.

The first time it usually hurts girls because its really tight as well as the hymen breaking. It hurt my girlfriend more the second time we had sex than the first. A lot of girls break their hymen playing sports and a lot of girls are born without one. Being a virgin has nothing to do with a hymen. If you've had a penis in your vagina your not a virgin. It the only way you can lose your virginity. If you haven't had a penis in your vagina then your a virgin.

Its when there's penatration... so if you have used anything on you besides your finger you pretty much lost your virginity to a dildo or whatever...

Well... this sounds a little familiar but I was at a similar website and it said that your hymen could be broken doing other activities than sex so obviously if that's the case you're still a virgin.

Ok it's both. The first time hurts because of the hymen, but that doesn't mean that the second time is a breeze pain free no worries type of a deal. It takes a few times to get used to. Some girls depending on how big the guy is will hurt. It's all a matter of variable. Once you get in a few practice swings you'll be ok unless the guy is hung like a horse then I don't care how many times you have done it...good luck. Happy motoring. lol.