i have a "friend with benefits" that we get together once in a while and help each other out.when she is needy she calls me up and I do the same for her.no strings or anything and just to get each other off.
I have that too with someone, except lately I've developed strong feelings for him, so I keep trying to break it off, but it's hard to do that. I don't know how girls could get with someone who they have no feelings for or who don't eventually develop feelings for. I've never been able to completely pull that off. Actually, I don't know any girls that have done that with absolutely no feelings, ever. - 3 months ago
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Well there are some feelings there and we did date but we found we work better as friends than anything else and this just build more to our friendship......but yes I get what you mean....it can be difficult....what does he think about ur feelings? have you talked to him about it? - 3 months ago
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We haven't really established if we have feelings for each other. he's told me he would date me, but it would be awkward& difficult (if you knew everything behind it all you'd understand) so that he's waiting for me. I don't take that too seriously. I brush it off & don't show him signs that he means more to me. His actions show that he doesn't have any feelings for me and I don't want to make things weird. I'm actually planning to break this hook up thing off soon. I think I need to just move on - 3 months ago
If you're talking sex, 0. If you're talking about kissing, it's not that often because the way that I work is that once I'm kissing or making out with a girl, I'm not really single. I'm dating her, or I'm the boyfriend.
Aw, it's good to know that not all guys go around having sex and stuff for the fun of it and that some only do it when feelings are involved. It's good to know that not every guy uses girls. - 3 months ago
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