To make a long story short, I used to deal with this guy, we clicked immediately, physically. We were always all over eachother, now I believe that's all he wanted from me. So, I cut him off. This new guy wants to talk to me, possibly go out. I can't seem to get over my 'ex' because I fear that the new guy and I will NOT have that same physical attraction, and I will never get over my ex. Any help, has anyone been there before?
My girlfriend suddenly just stopped talking to me in late March honestly have NO idea why. I met a new girl who is more fun & has a better sense of humor. To be honest with you I still think of my ex every day. I don't get as upset about it like I first did but with time I hope the new & improved will get the old one OUT of my heart. Time has helped me & it will you too. If not this guy then the next one. GOOD LUCK
But the old one recently started contacting me again. So I'm actually in some sort of dilemma. - 3 months ago
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Yes this is a bit of a dilemma, what did the old one do ? Was it unforgivable or just rude? Did he use you? Do you want to go down that some road again? I think that you need to ask yourself some tough questions. Give the old one a 2nd chance or are you better off with the new guy? It's hard to compare the 2 but you do know the old ones faults & kindnesses. Again I guess it's just do you want to go down that road again?? GOOD LUCK - 3 months ago
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Damn it, you're right. - 3 months ago
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I just gave you some questions that I would ask myself, as I have been there before. I hope things turn out for the best in the long run. Good luck! - 3 months ago
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I just gave you some questions that I would ask myself. I hope things turn out for the best in the long run. Good Luck - 3 months ago
Well, that's the thing. it wll take some time getting used to another person. I was with a guy for 2 years and we broke up in may. I'm still trying to find a partner that I can share the same physical attraction. it's going to be a little hard at first because you're so used to the things that you both did and shared. You'll never know until you try. this might just be the one.
I know how you feel because I'm going through a similar situation except there is no other guy to help me get this other guy (he wasn't my ex like in your situation) out of my head. Remember, all relationships are different. There will never be the same exact physical attraction, mental connection or anything else in a different guy. That is why they're different. If you're comparing two guys, one will have better and worse things than the other. You may not have as big of a sexual attraction to the new guy, but maybe there's something else making up for it. If you have feelings for him, I'm sure there's some type of sexual attraction for him too. I don't think there would be none at all.
You can't stay hung up on your ex. I know it can take a lot of time to heal from that, but it'll heal faster if you don't let yourself dwell on it and you move it. It is going nowhere now and doesn't seem like it will be going anywhere. That is why he's your ex. It didn't work out for a reason right? Which means there must be someone else for you out there so don't let him hold you back. Go out there and meet new guys. I promise you'll find someone with a great mental and physical attraction for.
just tell this new guy, when it comes up, to do this to you, or you like this, or whatever. the problems with relationships it that there is NO COMMUNICATION!
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