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Do I need to use a condom?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: More than a year ago
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my boyfriend and I are having sex for the first time. should we use a condom?


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bigboii6655
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bigboii6655      When: 9 months ago
it depends if you want a kid or no?
More than likely I would think not.. sooo yeah the condom can be a life preventer!
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sexy-man
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sexy-man      When: More than a year ago
is this a serious question? wow well use a condom. How old are you? 12? damn it. Doesn't it make sense to wear a condom to ensure you guys don't end up making a baby?

Use one.
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guzguz
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guzguz      When: More than a year ago
No doubt about this.

If you really trust in him (but really really!), ask for a medical exam, if he likes you and respect you, he will understand and will do this.
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John-Bee
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John-Bee      When: More than a year ago
YES ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY! I know that you are not worried about STDs since this is a first for you two. Even if you are on the pill you are WAY too young to be taking any chances!
Even the coma cosi pull out is only around 70% effective.
PLEASE use a condom, you can buy them at the drug store & go to the pharmacist to pay for them. They have seen this 100's of times. It's not like your going up to the old lady at the counter & paying for them.
Get the best that they have. I would recommend that they be pre lubricated & sensitive. Since this is his first time sensitive means he's sensitive & they are a bit thicker.
PLEASE BE CAREFUL
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somegirlxoxo
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somegirlxoxo      When: 7 months ago
If you don't use one, tell me what you name the child :)
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
YES
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gravygirl
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gravygirl      When: More than a year ago
Um, yes. Unless you want to be a single mother.
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miszxnessa
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miszxnessa      When: More than a year ago
hahahaa "sexy-man" that was funny!

but, most defiantly even if its not your first time.

kid? I think not.

like they say.safe sex is the best sex.

get your rubber on!

;)
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daidai
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daidai      When: More than a year ago
If you don't want to use a condom then go get him check out because looks are very deceiving. Remember to take your pill don't miss and get the morning after stuff just in case you decide to go w/o the jacket, nobody can tell you what you want to do, know that there are consequences w/whatever situation or choice you decide to make. Some say the condom take away the feeling, but hey who knows. This is your life and your choice to do whatever you want to do and remember whatever happens you had time to consider everything
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JeVousAime
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JeVousAime      When: More than a year ago
"Because he has been saying that he doesn't have anything (STDs) so we shouldnt have to wear a condom" you say?

He obviously has the same number of STD's as he does brain cells.
Use a condom!
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Shlei3
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Shlei3      When: More than a year ago
Yes
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lindseyholtz
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lindseyholtz      When: More than a year ago
are you kidding?! of course! duh! make you you ask him if he has one and if he doesnt, don't do it! it only takes one time to become prego!
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shevvon21
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shevvon21      When: More than a year ago
YES! it's the first time of course. but, you don't wanna take any chances. unless you know he's absolutely posiitively clean. you would also have ot be ready for any consequences that come along with it as well. like pregnancy, (if you aren't on birth control,) and a std. be careful and think wisely about your decision.
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Justcurious144
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Justcurious144      When: More than a year ago
you decide if you want a kid no if you don't yes, that simple.
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Question Asker Im 16 of course I don't want a kid. - More than a year ago
Answerer Then what the f*** are you asking the question for? - More than a year ago
JeVousAime Justcurious144 does have a point... - More than a year ago
Answerer Yeah I know. if you don't want the kid than don't go unprotected. period. that's like a no shit question.

- More than a year ago

Elle0214
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Elle0214      When: More than a year ago
if you are BOTH having sex for this first time then he probably doesn't know when he's gonna cum. unless you want to get PG then dont
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Justcurious144 Thats like exactly what I said. with pout the first time stuff. - More than a year ago

jaylow
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jaylow      When: More than a year ago
100 % yes
Make sure you use one every time and with everyone ya sleep with it is for ur protection from diseases he may have and might not know it. It also helps towards not gettin pregnant although there is other things you may need to take as well for not gettin pregnant
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Question Asker Because he has been saying that he doesn't have anything (STDs) so we shouldnt have to wear a condom. - More than a year ago
Answerer I love of people don't even know they have something untill its passed round a couple of times as diseases don't always have syptoms. It won't b a big deal 2 him if you ask him 2 wear 1 he will respect you more 4 it and it is just for safety. Only around 1 in 100 guys would refuse 2 wear 1 and if he did he wouldn't b worth sleepin with. - More than a year ago
 
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