I hate my boobs.

I come from a family where all of my sisters were very large chested. I know saw the struggle you are talking about because they fought the same thing. But if it makes you feel any better, my sisters all grew into women who are very proud of who they are and how they look.

I can tell you from a guys viewpoint.you sound perfect. In fact, the same size as my wife. They aren't huge, or monstrous, they are just breasts. The thing is though.you are insecure about them, because you feel they are too large. Your body is yours.you have to come to feel proud of what you have. But there are always ways that you can help make things appear smaller. There are sports bras and other special bras out that can help "pull things in", and maybe help you with your self esteem.

But trust me, you really don't need to worrry about this. I'm sure you are beautiful, and everyone at school is right.you are lucky. Be glad at who you are, and don't worry about it so much. I'm sorry your cheerleading outfit is uncomfortable.I hope the new one fits you better.

Well, you've also got to understand that most of the people you hear these comments from are probably dancers -- I don't know that many dancers that are well-endowed.

To be honest, your breasts sound like a size that most men really go for (this is really odd writing this to a 16-year old). I'm a breast man myself, so I can tell you that size isn't the most important thing, but shape counts, too. Some girls will be spiteful of you because your breasts are larger than theirs, and that's just something you're going to have to train yourself to ignore . . . I mean, it's not your fault, is it? No, of course not! So don't worry what other catty girls say about you and your breasts.

If it's a hierarchy, like dance teams tend to be, then you'll have to pay your dues and go through some crap until you get older and move up in the ranks, as it were. Hang in there. Someday the only person whose opinion about your breasts will matter will be your husband's.

Your boobs sound like they are the perfect size. If someone says something about it is probably they are just jealous. that's is what you were born with so sow them off and be proud of them.

I'm sorry that you feel like that. People especially guys make a big deal out of boobs. Yours sound just fine. Don't let these harmless comments get to you.
Now I ask would you rather be flat & people making fun of that & wondering if you will ever get any or have what you've got?

I can see that you are in a really tough situation. My partner had very big breasts fairly early in her life and it had a huge impact on her. People thought that because she had big breasts that she was easy sexually even though she had never even had sex.

There is another way you can look at it and this is that all of those people are really paying you a compliment. Like it or not the goal for women is to have big breasts and I would be willing to bet that all of those women are genuinely jealous of you.

It is really all about who you are being around this. If you can be that these people are paying you compliments then maybe you can really see the people that are looking at you not from wearing baggy clothes, but that are admiring what you have.

I know it seems difficult when you are down, but my partner even until just recently (and she is turning 40 next week) was embarrassed about her breasts. She has begun to realize that I love her for who she is and I love her breasts regardless of what they look like and I think they look great. So, give those other girls a break. They probably go home and cry because they will never have breasts as big as your unless they pay for them. Personally I like the real things!

Karen, we are all different and believe it or not none of us is happy with how nature made us. Now in reality most of the problems are larger in our own minds than they are in reality. 34C is not an unusual size, in fact it is a very common size. Perhaps you have developed them sooner than many of your friends, but rest assured the others, or most of them, will catch up with you. I think what your true problem is that you feel different and you want to just blend in with your friends. Well I'm sorry, but some things we just can't change so we must learn to make the best of them.
I do have a suggestion for last years uniform. I am assuming you are in a school group that requires these uniforms. If so, there is probably a home economics class in that school. What if you approached the teacher after school, privately? Be honest and open about how this uniform's poor fit makes you feel. I would be very surprised if the teacher couldn't help you tailor it to be a perfect fit for you.
I hope this was helpful and good luck to you. Just don't let it get you down, we all have these things that bother us, really. :)

It's too bad people made such a 'big deal' over your big.ooops, I'm sorry!

Seriously, it's ridiculous the way people make fun of other people just because of the way they came into the world.

But you are going to have to live with the fact that you'll get dress coded quicker and so forth. As you get older most people will mature and you won't be made fun of much any more, so just bear with it for now!

I have the same size and I know EXACTLY what your talking about. You wear a normal shirt and everyones like "GEEZE! PUT THOSE AWAY!" blah blah blah. However, I think they say it because they are secretly enjoying it. Girl, Be proud of yo titties! Maybe the shirts you wear reveal more cleavage and therefore get more attention. You should try wearing shirts a little higher up. In the morning try bending over a little and see if they pop out.

i hate it too. I'm not overweight, and I'm only 15, but am I size 34DD. its awful. but I have just tried to learn to live with it. there's not much else you can do really x

sweety! seriously don't get bothered by their comments they are just JEALOUS! I have 36 D haha and its no biggy you'll get used to them don't worry! there are minimizer bras that you could buy which make like your breats look smaller even though they are of a bigger size. You'll accept yourself as who you are and eventually you weill be proud of being a girl with a nice porportioned body that most girls don't have. Don't let them give you a bigger size because of your breast hells naw! get your size that fits you perfectly . Those immature boogers are just jealous that's all and they are tyring to make you miserable because you have something that they don't which makes them miserable. So demonstrate to them that they better be jealous and make them miserable just by having them look at you. I was picked on too but once you grow older and more mature in a way you'll see that its not worth crying or hating your breast because its just a part of who you are. Talk to those girl and show them how to feel and maybe they will stop and if they don't then just make them miserable.

what happened to you was unfair,
if I were you, I would've went to the coach and be like, this I too
big for me there are other girls on the team who're just as big and they get regular fitting tops
and if she still won't let you have a new top maybe you should sit this one out in protest to let her
know you're serious.