k so my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 5 months. I was a virgin before him, and we just recently started having sex. as of now, it's been about 4-5 times. he's pretty big and it still hurts every time. well the last time we were having sex, he asked me if I was enjoying myself. I said "yes" and I meant it. it was hurting less. I still hadn't orgasmed though. then he asked me if I had.and I said no. and he got really frustrated.thinking it's his fault. I told him it wasn't, that I am just really small (I weigh 110) and now its making me wonder, when will I orgasm? it feels better each time, but no orgasm. help me!
Well, I am not a woman, but from what I know from my experiences is this:
Not all women can orgasm easily; even with a man they are attracted to. Some women can have vaginal orgasms (from penetration), most women can have clitoral orgasms from stimulation. I even knew a girl once that could orgasm from prolonged, sensual touching of her nipples and neck. (That was a long time ago in my frat years.)
The thing that sucks for girls (pun definitely intended), is that 99.99% of guys can pop pretty easily from virtually any type of sexual contact, not so for the ladies.
However, all that having been said (and it was a mouthful, again, pun intended), ask your beau to take you downtown, if you haven't already. Guide him and teach him. My wife did this for me when we were first married 100 years ago, and I've learned over time just how what she likes and how she likes it. In fact, she tells me that she actually prefers my tongue over anything else, because it gets her hotter than a phoenix in July.
A lot of girls don't orgasm from sex. It really isn't weird if you don't. I don't, but sex does feel good to me, and I absolutely love doing it after I've orgasmed. And if his penis is big and it's hurting you, it will hurt a less less if you've just cum. Have him go down on you or finger you before you have sex, and you should be able to come and enjoy sex more.
well, believe it or not, not many women can get an orgasm. sometimes they get to the point of climax and just lose it. just tell him that it really isn't his fault at all (men like to know that they're pleasing the girl, so I get why he's frustrated). I suggest that they two of you get together and fool around a little. like, test to see what gets you to that climaxing point and what can help you get an orgasm (use toys, porn, etc. if it helps). So, don't worry about it (cause stress, anxiety and worrying don't mix with sex). I hope this helped! Be safe!
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