I straddled my boyfriend for the first time today and laid on top of him. Usually he can get a boner VERY easily. Sometimes just from seeing me. Yet he didn't get a boner throughout all the three hours we were making out while straddling or laying down. Anyone know why this might be?
Sometimes the boner is just in 'neutral' and that can be a good thing because and as strange as it sounds, its easier to think clearly, logically and be of more sound mind when one doesn't have an erection. It doesn't mean he is 'turned off' or doesn't find you attractive. It is also possible not to get one if one has masturbated several times in a short period and has thus 'depleted' the urge to get a hard on. However, the opposite is true: if one hasn't had sex, or released his pressure so to speak in quite a while, then getting a boner could easily happen.
Those things are pretty random sometimes. I don't think it means anything, just that his body didn't think he was going to have sex right then. Are you having sex? Or getting him off in some other way? If you aren't maybe he tried to keep it down so he doesn't get too excited and get blue balls. I could see the logic behind doing that.
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