So this crush that I have for nearly 2 years have been having interest and sexual tension with each other for awhile. It happened at work in my department office where we kind of goofed off and started getting hot and heavy with each other. His pants came off and my did half way but as we got more nervous someone might barge in and get caught the passion was there.
The more nervous we got the excitement started building but before he even did anything. I kind if jacked him a little bit and he came first.
What happened? Why did he come so fast? Did he get scared?
Many times the first time we are with a girl (especially if it's one that we have wanted for a while) it will be very difficult to last (unless the opposite happens and we get TOO nervous to go).
If you notice that your new fling seems to not be paying attention to you every few minutes (er seconds) then it's probably because he is thinking about something else to keep himself from going to quickly (oh no,. quick think about something unsexy before you make a fool or yourself,. um,. um,. Hilary Clinton going down a slip'n'slide filled with jello,. oh crap,. to unsexy,. now nothing is working). You might laugh,. but this isn't too far from what is really going on in our head, besides "-- in a Disney's Goofy's voice -- Gosh, huh uh."
Perhaps I'm sharing too much,. :)
He seems into you, I wouldn't worry at all about this.
Wow, your story sounds really familiar to this story my cousin told me. Ha ha, he was probably so excited y'all were doing something that well he came to fast.
Not scared, probably just overwhelmed by the fact that the girl he's wanted for two years was actually touching him. It's a good thing. It means he really wants you. Also I think it can happen more if a guy hasn't had sex in a while. One of my exes came the first time I touched his penis. I mean like one second after. He wasn't like that afterwards, but I think that first time was just overwhelming. He'd had a thing for me for a while, and I'm sure he'd jerked off to that exact scenario. I didn't find it strange or bad that he came so fast. It only becomes a bad thing if that's how it is every time you get together.
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