My fiance and I have been engaged for a while, and will be married in a few more months. We've been sleeping together for about six months and it seems like I'm the one who wants more sex. When we do have sex, it's very little foreplay (if at all) and mostly what will do the job for him. What am I doing wrong? Is this the cause of my "higher" sex-drive?
I really really disagree with the guy below me. My girlfriend and I have sex about twice a week, unless she's on her period of course. But sometimes we never have sex in the same place. You shouldn't limit your self to just the bed. We have sex in my car, in the office, outside, and the bed. At each place you can do something different. I think the fear of being scene and caught is what drives us to do it in public.
Next place she want to try, is the airplane. That will be interesting. In the end, you should talk to your partner and see if he would like to go somewhere and try something different. Last note, my girlfriend LOVES the office desk. Cause its the right height and I can go deeper inside her. Hope this helps you.
Guys get tired of doing it with the same girl, ooopss but its true!! They want someone new to do it with! It gets kinda old, having sex with the same person over and over again, even if the girl is most beautiful, hot and sexy girl, he will soon start to get bored of you.
kurokage10
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Yeah I agree with him above me. Foreplay is very important to the girl. I mean, even in psychology it says that girls need some kinda something in the middle before sex. With guys they can just be turned on from sight. So get something really sexy,...maybe tease him a bit,...but all those quickies the guy above me is talking about may take away from the mood. Don't blame yourself. It's not you, it's him. There is more foreplay to be done with a girl than with a dude. Maybe you should initiate some foreplay. Maybe guide his hand,...but don't beat yourself up about it,...just maybe try to control what he does a little bit more.
Coldman11
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
First of all tell him that to you foreplay is important. Second of all, you have the internet, buy some sexy lingerie, look up a few new sex moves, try to see if he wants to do anything in particular. And if you want to rock the boat if you both know there's a day when you are so busy you can't fit anything in between then tease him sexually and then give it up when you get a spare moment. Also on your wedding day if he takes the trouble to see you before the wedding fit in a quicky if you only have like 30 minutes, it's exciting.
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