What's up with all of the little kids (teens) that are so eager to have sex?

For me I didn't learn about sex until I was in middle school and now they are learning about it in fourth and fifth grade! I think a lot are curious and don't know what they want. They just want to be seen as "cool" to everyone because everything you see in society is telling you to have sex or you won't be accepted. A lot of these tweens probably don't even know better and think that having sex will just make them that more appealing and attractive. So many people I know that are 14, 15, and 16 claim that they have found "the one" and they want to have sex with them only after a month of dating them! It's ridiculous and down right annoying but I guess that's their mentality and it's their fault if they end up getting hurt. And if you try to talk to them about it, they blow you off because they think they know everything.

Because they are curious. They hear about it all the time want to see what's up with it. I don't agree with it, but they are little kids. Another thing is that a lot of young girls think it's cute, or think it's grown, to saw they had sex, have sex, and love it. Girls with no class and probably low self esteem have to put that out there all the time in order to feel accepted. That's why I feel I am lucky to have a mother who's been through all the ropes and taught me the knowledge she has from experience. But at the same time, I'm not judging some girls, simply because they didn't have that, that mother to teach them. But for the ones that do, then still don't listen, I don't understand. But yeah, kids are just interested because they want to be cool, want to see what the hype is all about, want to seem more "adult", or in some cases, when they are little bit older of a teen, they actually found love.

You're certainly the only guy I've ever heard of who wanted to save his virginity. It seems weird to me. So does putting off relationships because you knew none of them were serious enough for you. How would you know something like that without trying? Are you sure that you're not just afraid of women?

No, you're not the only one that wanted to save your virginity. I just gave mine to a man I love and trust and I'm 19 years old. I have taken precautions -- seen a gynecologist, gone on the pill, and still insist that a condom is used every time. I'm not sure why people feel the need to be sexual at such a young age. Attention seekers, perhaps?

Horniness.Hahahaa seriously. There could be allot of reasons, low self esteem, "don't want to be left behind". A boyfriend that pressures them, visa verse, lol. Like in that movie Juno, they were bored. They just want to, it's a self decision that no one can go back and change. Nor should anyone else judge.

Well let me say you aren't the only guy who wanted to save his virginity. I'm still a virgin, and I'm 25. I'm waiting for someone special that I love.

The issue with people wanting to have sex has two parts.

First off you most remember that the human race has changed considerably over the last 100 years. We have lengthened our lifespan by double, triple, the amount depending on what year you look at. Early one when the average human was lucky to get to age 30/40 relationships and families started at a much younger age than they are now. It was a necessity if the parents were going to have the chance to raise the kids. So in this respective humans become sexually aware in their teens. The adolescent will notice different feelings etc and want to explore those more. If the teen experiments with his or her body solo he/she might want to see what it's like with another person. It's a matter of curiosity.

Second there's the reality that everywhere you look there's talk of sex. It's blatantly talked about in the media. It isn't even that there has to be mention of the word sex for it to be there. The scantily clad woman in the magazine add or the half naked guy in the TV commercial.

Combine this with a hormonal kid and bam! The kid's going to want to do something.

This is to the comment you left me on my answer. I'm sick of it to. Before I get into this any deeper, are you a liberal or republican?

I am no expert but I think it mostly has to do with the media and the peer pressure. The whole idea of getting drunk and then getting ready for some high sex train is what's "awesome" and "cool". No matter how shallow that may sound.

It could also be for the fact that these younger kids are completely controlling their own life - no parental control, or concern. I can say this because I know a young girl who's had a rough child hood, as my family has known her family for a while. Her parents eventually stoped taking her seriously while they took care of their own busy lives. So, by the time she was 14, she went out and got herself knocked up. It's harsh but that's reality. And the sad part is, her parents had no concern for her even after that. I think she was doing it for the sake of grabbing attention because she never really got that in her own home. She figured if she kept herself busy in making her sex life better with who ever, she wouldn't have to deal with the family drama.

Well, that is one reason for it but others may include something along the lines of experience. Some of those kids just want to see what it feels like to have sex. It's their curiosity; which once again reinforces the media factor. The "hot sex scenes" from the glamorous Hollywood movies have the kids fantasizing their own sex scenes, so they take their chances to see how they can follow through.

Other then that, I'd say it also has to do with the lack of knowledge (no hint of consequences). As most of these younger people just want to put themselves out there without thinking about whether it's right or wrong. Lots of my friends started to get sexually involved at a very young age for the sake of a hot chick or for the fact that they wanted to hang out with the bigger guys and to prove their manly-ness, they figured, it'll be okay to f*** a girl. Well, for most of them, it didn't work out so well. Plus, it was also the hormones situation. They typical "guys want sex" statement was true for some of them and is probably one of the biggest reasons as to why little boys and girls are getting f***ed over.

Overall, experience, curiosity, hormones, attention, peer pressure and media are the main factors in pushing these kids into Fuckville but like I said earlier, I am no expert. These are just my own assumptions.

Its because of all those rat bastards rap stars who glorify sex. If all those welfare beggers would actually have a kid to raise him or her to become respectable, fine adults then we wouldn't have a problem of kids running around trying to act like the latest rap star.