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OCD, or is it real?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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So, I don't know what my sexuality is, and I think about it all the time. I get physical impulses around girls and stuff, but as soon as I stop thinking if I'm gay or not, all the impulses and stuff go away. I'm emotionally attached to guys, and I think their bodies are better looking than a womans. But when I see porn or something, I can "feel" the other women touching one another.

So, I guess what I'm asking could I possibly be getting these feelings because I think about it too much (OCD, or over empathy?) or are these feelings real? Because I have NO interest in girls other than those impulses and I don't know why I have them if I don't like them. Any explanations or opinions?

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swirlyman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
do they scare you or does it spike your curiosity. being turned on by seeing two woman together is understandable it is highly erotic for men and woman you say you have no interest in girls it sounds like your already past that point and may need to act on this particular fantasy we all have them and this isn't to crazy actually very common try these 2 things

1; watch a porn alone or with partner employ the use of a good toy and stimulate yourself while watching girl on girl part or have partner perform oral as you masterbate yourself to girl on girl porn.

2; have girlfriend spend evening pajama party night have some champagne makes things sexier and loosens up the subject begin talking about sex past, present, likes, dis-likes, fantasies and then tell her about feelings you've had and ask her to expirement with you some the champagne should have kicked in by now and you will probably have to begin this start by removing your shirt and then your bottoms you can leave your panties on from there its up to you if she says no or seems hesitant begin touching yourself spread your legs and massage your kitty ask her to watch she'll loosen up and soon you will be expirementing together

this may sound like all to much but if you have any of these feelings why not explore them don't be ashamed every one has fantasies and different desires. its whatever turns you on and you enjoy. it will only bother you not to explore I wish my wife was honest with all of her fantasies. there is nothing more erotic or stimulating then acting out a fantasy. have fun let me know how it goes and if you enjoyed it! maybe after reading this my wife might open up and share if she has same feelings most woman do they claim? good luck
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Cupcake905 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I felt the same way a few years ago.

I ended up making out with (nothing more) three girls, and I had fun, but in the moment I really had no interest in going any further.

You should try it out. Especially if you think about it all the time. If you don't you'll probably always be curious.
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Princess-emyooo123 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
well if you don't like it then they're not real.i think it is because your thinking about it too much.find a boy and I think that will help you take your mind off it.you obviously do not want to be gay and its not like your bodys going to force you to be it.your just probably going through an experimental phase.you could try to have an experience with a woman and see how it goes.
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