my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. I like kissing and cuddling with him, but I don't feel ready for doing much more than that. I know the whole 'no experience' thing doesn't really matter because if you like who you're with a lot then you WANT to do things with them.i really like him but I just don't want to do much more than kissing and cuddling. is that weird?
NO it is not weird. We all have our own speed of how things progress. You will know when you are ready & it FEELS RIGHT. Please do NOT let him push you to go any further/faster than you are ready to.
I think there's more underneath this than meets the eye. Are you a virgin? Do you have religious concerns about it? Or is he just no leading enough?
Think of it this way, mother nature made you the way you are to attract men and pursue the process of mating and reproducing. It's in our DNA. That doesn't mean you should do anything you're not really "ready" for. you shouldn't do anything you don't want to do, period.
But the question to throw this back to you is. why? Why aren't you ready with this guy? The answer to that should tell you whether or not this is "weird" for you.
No. it's fine as long as he doesn't try to push you to do other things. Taking it slow is admirable and very wise. It may come around and if it doesn't and you find you don't even want to kiss or cuddle with him you may think of him just as a friend.
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