Considered Rape?

If that's not rape, it was dangerously close to being rape at the very least. Good for you kicking him in the balls.

I don't normally find testicle kicking funny, but that story makes me laugh and cheer. Good for you! I don't know you, but I'm proud of you! The idiot deserved it. Maybe, just maybe, he'll think twice about it next time, but the moron is probably too stupid to think twice about anything, and he'll be ding this again with some other girl.

Now, if he didn't get all the way, then I'm not sure if you need to go to the hospital and get a rape kit or something like that, but you SHOULD tell someone responsible whom you trust. And you should consider letting your friends know. And if anyone asks about the date, you should let them know he gets grabby and that he shouldn't be trusted.

If I were a parent in this situation, I'd be tempted to let HIS parents know about what happened, so that maybe he can get into counseling before he actually DOES rape someone, if he hasn't already.

Don't talk to him. Don't listen to his apologies if he makes any. Never be alone with this guy again. And, if you don't already, you might consider letting people know when you're out on a date and when you should be home (just in case).

I wish you luck in this situation. That had to be creepy for you, and I'm sorry that some boys act like that, because most real men (and even a lot of boys) don't do that. No, it's not a "guy just being a guy thing" at all. I kind of hate having to apologize for the whole group of males, because that implies guilt, but as a man, I'm sorry this happened to you, and as a reminder, we're not all like that.

Well I wouldn't call it being a guy, and no it is not rape. He is very ill mannered and probably very inexperienced with girls. You did just the right thing so far. I think you should share the experience with an adult you can trust, perhaps a school counselor. Someone who could talk to the boy and explain that his behavior was inappropriate and must be changed or he will be discussing assault charges with the police in the near future. He needs to be made to understand that physical contact between two people must be completely consensual.
I read the answers below, and I have a different opinion. Sexual Harassment is widely misunderstood. It isn't harassment until you have voiced your objection to the behavior and it reoccurs.

That is sexual harassment. No question about it. If that's what being a guy is about then I guess I'm not a guy. You don't just jump on a girl, this dude is out of his mind.

Thats not being a guy. That's being a Douch. please don't sum us up all in one. Report him cause he's just going do it to someone else

he molested you I wouldn't really call it rape yet but he was definitely in the wrong

he molested you I wouldn't really call it rape yet but he was definitely in the wrong

I would say he's a horny bastard.& stay away from him!

speaking as someone whos been in similar situation accept worse its definitely not rape but definitely crossing the line if you made it clear you didn't want him to do what he done, sexual harassment basically

I mean he didn't technically rape you- but its definately NOT just being a guy.

Dont talk to the guy or hang around him. He sounds dangerous.

I would stay well away from him and just be a bit more careful. He didn't actually rape you but sounds like he would have if you hadn't have kicked him and got away. Try 2 b more upfront with the next guy you go out with. sort of let him no that ur not the type of girl 2 sleep with sum1 so quickly.