Yes, and he wasn't special at ALL :(. At first he turned me on really quickly a sign that I should read as watch out this could just be a sexual relationship. I mistook it for something more. I ended up hating him because I wanted something more, he ended up hating me for pressuring him and getting attached. Basically we exchanged I love you's at first but that seemed only like something to cover up the fact that we really had nothing going on between us but sex.
Yeah I've been in one. Still am in fact. The trouble with a relationship like this is if your doing it long term someone always gets attached and starts having feelings for the other person. I don't care how many ground rules you lay to begin with. Your heart does not follow those rules even if your head might think it should. Someone usually ends up hurt and pissed off at the other person.
You ask what makes this guy special. There is something about him, from the moment I met him there was like an attraction, it felt like I was always being pulled to him by some force, and once we were together that force seems even stronger. He's almost like an addiction for me, I know he's bad for me yet I keep going back. I just want to be with him, and he just wants to stick his dick in me, I think, he thinks that's all I'm worth.
Yes I did, and I got attached. But I liked him a lot before we started having sex, so I guess that's probably why. I don't know, personally, I wouldn't be able to have sex with a guy unless I had some kind of feelings for him. I would just feel dirty and guilty afterwards. But I'm sure there's some people who don't care, and all there looking for is some good sex. I think it all depends on the person and the situation. Anyways, to make a long story short. Things didn't work out between me and this guy. We were "friends" for a while, had sex a few times, then we parted ways because of some he said she said nonsense. I miss him, but then I realize that he moved on, so I have to too. Anyways, I wouldn't recommend getting involved in something like that, unless you're A) a totally heartless person or B) you're sexually frustrated or you're just looking for physical pleasure without attachment.
Yes, but I wouldn't call him "special". We couldn't stand one another on a personal level, but the sex was soo good that we both kept coming back for more. We basically hated each other and always argued in public. But making it all up in the bedroom was lots of fun! He was definitely the best in bed I have ever had, as cold hearted as he is. I know deep inside he has got at least a little love for me, but he never acted like it.
Yes I have. Back in high school I was part of a 30+ group of people. Basically we were all in small cliques, but when the weekends came around we would all get drunk together. Well, there was one guy, who I wouldn't have considered to be a close friend of mine, that I hooked up with all through senior year. We never dated or considered dating each other. Our "relationship" was purely physical and I never got attached.
Definitely, before we were anything we were really close friends and then started dating and having sex, then he turned to this crazy jackass and a hated him, after I got over it we are friends again and we just have sex when ever we want, no feelings for him at all. He is special because we are friends I feel comfortable and not gonna lie, his dick is big.
I have had a couple. The level of connection is different then if you were really into him. A good thing about is no attachment but deep inside there is this desirable passion that remains.
Yep..in that situation now. And it sucks because I'm really trying to not fall for him. Though, I think I have and he knows it. I mean, the sex is great, I LOVE IT and being with him, and being his friend at the same time. But sometimes its hard to not think otherwise. Im not a jealous person usually, but I sometimes just want it to be me and me alone, even if it is a friends with benefits situation.
I just got a divorce. My ex and I were together for 11 years. Right now I am really looking for more of a physical thing. I don't know if I could handle an actual relationship right now.
Yeah been there... wait. still there. It's been going on for 13 months. The sex is good most of the time, sometimes great, and sometimes not worth the effort, depending on how much he drinks. I have real feeling for him, but I know deep down that he will never think of me as anything other then a phone a fk friend. I truly want something more and it hurts real bad to know he could never see me as his Girlfriend, someone he'd have a real relationship with.
It's a trap of my own making. I keep going back cause I don't want to be without him. It's a truly painful relationship and I need out, or he needs to step up and be my man, I know this but yet I keep going back.
Thank you for your honesty. This has been eye opening for me, and I appreciate you and all the women (and men!) who have been open and sharing of their personal thoughts and experiences for this question and on this site. Thank you all :) - 10 months ago
I am in the exact situation, but I'm going to end it soon because it's too hard not being able to have more......and technically not being able to get mad if he finds someone else. - 10 months ago
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I know mine asks me if I'm breaking up with him, mean while I'm thinking... We're not even going out to begin with so how could I break up with him. It seems he does not want me as a girlfriend, but does not want anyone else to have me either. - 10 months ago
We both just wanted sex. we tried to have a relationship but we realized that couldn't work. We still hung out and stuff, but we had sex to. It was like we were having a relationship, without the title. I loved it.
Yes, at first I didn't mind, I was having fun, but now I'm realizing that's not me, and I don't want to be seen in that way, my morals are getting in the way, but maybe that's a good thing. I want more than sex now that I'm thinking about who else this guy is having sex with.
It wasn't much of a relationship. We were just best friends and wanting sex. He would always tickle me and then stop when he got kinda... well... "there" then kinda just foreplay for a while. Then we just had sex. It was awesome, but I've really only done it twice. I'm a bit young... so that may be why. He was special because he was amazing.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 11 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
