Why does he still want to be in contact with me?

Probably because it was just that good with you . But it's not based on something that is healthy for him .

So if he won't stop trying to see you, it's up to you to stop the situation . ;-)

Probably because if he tells his wife and she kicks his ass out he wants to make sure he has someone down at his level to go to.

Or perhaps he's just a horny bastard...?

Word.

Yeah, I agree.

He still wants contact with you because he knows that you mean something to him and does not want to lose what you have to offer as the good person you are.

So he won't feel like he just used you for sex. And so you won't feel that way.
Just be friends with him and take things slowly and see if you to can be friends but control your feelings for him. believe me it will be for the better.

GoodLuck!
-Hailey<33

I don't think it was meant to happen I think you wanted it so you put that vibe out there and he simply picked up on it.

You had sex with a married man and did not feel guilty.... And what you want to know is why he still wants to contact you. Of course he felt guilty he f***ed around on his partner that he has a kid and a life with. As for why he's still contacting you well it could be because he wants to continue something with you. The first time they cheat is always the most difficult after that it gets easier and easier. And if his wife no longer wants him at least he's got you right.

It's never good being the other woman, even if you get him in the end all you have is a man you know cheats on his women.