Talking dirty?

he should feel lame talking dirty to you! but if that's the kind of talk you like, just talk like he does, like use slang words and cuss every other word and talk about sex and what you wanna do to him, or talk about what porn girls do to porn guys. like talk trashy and get as disrespectful as you can. that should make for a great relationship.

some people they have the ability to do so others can't .no big deal

Well, there is a lot of what I call conditioning done as you're growing up and many lead us to believe that such talking is irrespectful and shouldn't be used with those we love. However, then you will hear that husband x started an affair cause he was able to talk 'dirty' to the mistress, or because the mistress treated him like a porn star. etc

.Anyway, easiest thing to do is maybe watch a porn movie and see what is it that the women are saying, and when. You speak many languages, and you know that to learn to speak another language you normally repeat what is said to you, and eventually you get enough vocabulary to make your own sentences.If you don't know what to say, then watch a couple of movies and see what prhases are being used; you will eventually notice that is the same phrases over and over again, but variation maybe of words, intonation. Once you have the phrases down, next time you're having sex, repeat them mentally until you feel comfortable and then when your boyfriend mentions his dirty talk, then follow up with your phrases. Is not really that you don't know how.more like it got blocked from you somehow; so now is just a matter of practicing to unblock it. By the way, if you don't like porn, you can find those erotic novels in porn magazines and read those; those have a lot of creative dirty porn like dialogues that you could try to 'learn.'

haha I remember when I used to do that over the phone! what I would do is I would read naughty stories online and just repeat what they said lol HEy it would help