ok so I guess I can say I go to school with a lot of immature horny guys (and girls). everyone is constantly making sexual references to everything. and I mean everything. and because I'm the only girl in my family my parents have protected me from a lot which kinda hurts me in the long run because whenever people start talking about sex and sexual things I get extremely uncomfortable and it makes it even worse when guys ask if I have had sex or giving head before and I exclaim "ew that's gross!" they start asking me if I'm gay (which I'am not) and other stuff like that or when guys make comments about my body which scares me and makes me cover myself up (while other girls just giggle and walk on). even when girls do it I feel weird and withdraw from the convo or try to change it sometimes I wish I could be more comfortable when people start talking about sex and other stuff like that but that stuff just freaks me out! because I believe if people have sex only those two people should keep among themselves instead of telling the whole world about it. so I was wondering if I'm the only person in the world that feels that way about sex?
I can't really tell if you are a prude. I think you have a more mature attitude than your friends, as you say sexual matters should be private between the participating persons. You also say "ewe, that's gross" when you hear something sexual. Does that mean you are voicing your disapproval of hearing the sexual remark, or is that your feeling about sexual things? You don't really mention whether you have a normal interest in sexual matters. At 18-24 most girls will have some sexual experience. You don't really say if you have ever had any physical interaction with another person, or even if you have any interest in such interaction.
You are absolutely are not the only person . lets say in this country . that doesn't have sex on their minds 24/7! If you were, nothing would get done and there'd probably be no achievers or people that get things done. Sex has a time and place, just like everything else, and the more a person thinks about it when they should be thinking of other stuff, the more they're drawn to it. I'm sure the people you see at the Olympics don't have sex on their minds all the time because they're kept themselves busy learning worthwhile things. Don't worry that you're not like those guys or girls that try to get you down to their levels. They should respect that you're not as interested in all that as much as they are. They're talking way out of turn when they talk to you about that crap. If they wanna do all that stuff like it's fun and entertainment so that they can brag to all their friends, that's up to them. They can still be good people but those that talk about it all the time and try to get others to fill their minds with it too, or try to intimidate you that you're dumb or immature need to clean up their acts. It's ok for a laugh or joke sometimes but come on. When you find a man that you love and one that hasn't had sex on his mind 24/7 either, you'll be much more happy. Sex was meant to be more private and not like in every topic conversation. So just hang in there and try to get some friends that are like you. Good luck!
That's not to say that there aren't plenty of sluts/ho's/bro's around that groove on non-stop sex and sex talk 24/7 but a great many are just posers trying to talk a good game to fit in. Sex is really cool and once you've had it you'll want more but do so on YOUR schedule. Don't worry about the 'prude' aspect, it will all work out in time. Men are Pigs and ALWAYS looking for booty or at least trying to make everyone think that they are. Take you time. What is a 'prude' label going to cost you anyways? Especially with the right person, they won't care. Most guys would rather have a private smoldering 'prude' than a slut who's given it away every week. Good luck.
Nothing wrong with it at all. I'm a dude and I get the same way. It kinda makes me alittle ill especially when a girl I'm attracted to starts laughing and partaking in convos like you're talking about. People who do this in our age bracket and simply trying to make themselves more comfortable with it all. And then there's some pervs who enjoy talking about it in public. In fact just the other day I heard a girl I was kinda interested in laughing and joking back with a dude about some ish, and it was a big turn off. So all I can say is, instead of wishing you were more comfortable with that kinda talk, just know its not who you are and try to surround yourself who you're actually comfortable to be around.
No, you are quite normal, maybe like many other girls. This is just a part of growing up . You should do what ever you feel is right about sex, what ever you feel right about sex and givin head. When you act yourself is when you will find the right partner who matches you !
I am also overprotected by my parents which I hate. I do get uncomfortable when I'm complimented or spoken to in a sexual way. But its very hard to have ur parents understand that they are hurting you more than protecting you. We are just less comfortable about sex than more people and if you think about it that means we are harder to get in bed! lol.
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