I have this coworker. VERY flirtatious. But the thing is that its not just with me; she flirts with just about guy who gives her attention. She's kind of full of herself, and the complete douchebag kinda guys who, too, are full of THEMselves and want only sex seem to get the furthest with her. I know of one such guy who slept with her and others who I have suspicions of but I'm not sure. Anyway this coworker's also my friend. I'm on a business trip staying down the hall from each other. So I noticed today that I actually get really jealous when dudes flirt with her and she's like putty in their hands. She leans against them, etc etc. The thing is that this flirtatious jealousy is also making me want to. sleep with her. Though she flirts with me too; I seem to be interpreting them as something their not. We go out to eat and watch tv late in my room; but the flirting seems to stop there and I can't find anyway "in" to change that conversation/hangout into, "let's move to the bed" Im a fairly attractive guy who is usually fairly popular among women.so I guess I'm either I'm way too far into the friend zone; or she wants me to pull out all the stops wooing her. Or what else are my options? Yes I know I'm shallow, but me and her are both single and not looking for relationships so.I don't see why it can't happen - any suggestions? Thanks!
Only because she's a flirt doesn't mean you need to get her in bed. THat is really shallow unless she brings it up you shouldnt make a move. and if she really wants it shell know you want it too.
Haha It is shallow I know; I just recently started thinking about this and its been getting me frustrated cause its usually not this hard... but I see your point; thank you for responding - 3 months ago
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Ha sorry if I made it sound worse than it is. But hey if you ever need to talk I'm here for ya brother lol - 3 months ago
Ever tried the direct approach? She's being hit upon constantly due to her flirting behavior so turning it up seems like a lost cause. She 'might' be looking for someone more level and sincere but you'll never know without being sincere and direct. What's to lose? Offer her desert during TV time and forget the sweets. Good luck.
Yeah that's true; not a bad idea, she seems kinda cold at night and so I think she's either completely oblivious: trying to make it clear that she doesn't want to do anything: or she wants that super direct approach. I might give it a shot and get slapped, but that's life haha, thanks. - 3 months ago
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