I have been asked lots of times but I always see that guys first look at my boobs and ass before they start talking to me.It really bothers me because I don't know if they like me for ma personality or because of my body.Do you guys ever ask a girl out because of there personality and not because of there body?
Hilarious. If a guy speaks to you, believe me, he already did a whole assessment of your body and there was something he liked about it, and thus he comes and talks to you. I've met a few girls with great personalities, but guess what---wasn't attracted to them, so yea, they were fun to talk to, but never even considered them as hook up material or girlfriend material; now, if I saw a girl that caught my interest because of how they looked, then I go talk to them, and if by any miracle they turned out to be worthy of hanging out with me, then ill ask them out. But unfortunately, I did go talk to them in the first place because yea, they had a nice body. I never met a guy that told me.'that girl has such a great personality that ill go ask her out because of that.' And if you hear otherwise believe me, then you got a player or straight up liar.
We look at more than your boobs and ass. We have checked your face to make sure you are not ugly. We look at your legs all the way up and have a hood look at your crotch. We have checked your abdomen to see if you are too fat. Really, we check it all first. Why, you ask, because we are not looking for a friend, a personality, or anything of that nature. Females rarely make good friends, your interests are different than ours. If a guy asks you out, you can rest assured he has looked you over completely and has found you sexually interesting. Asking you out is just the first step in your sexual conquest. If he gets satisfactory sex from you in a reasonable period and he finds you not to be objectionable otherwise, he may stay with you long enough to begin to form an emotional attachment to you. With the exception of a few religious extremists, no, we never ask a girl out for her personality.
Why do girls need to talk to us before having sex?
Guy's mind: Sex before emotional stimulation. Girls: Emotional stimulation before sex.
Every guy before talking to a girl with any interest is going to look at her physical features. If there isn't a sexual interest then why flirt? Although while I'm talking to her, if it turns out that we're not socially compatible, I'll walk away rather then asking her out as it is a waste of time.
That was my fantasy answer, although in reality if you're that hot on my scale, I'll ask you out regardless of her annoying personality to get that nouch. How romantic.
Its kinda crappy but true :( are a lot of guys like that? - 3 months ago
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Overwhelmingly yes. Each and every guy wants to say that he chooses the girl "based on her personality" but I've seen plenty of times where the better personality loses due to the other girls looks. I don't mean a girl whose looks are a 10 but is a total b1tch is going to win a guys heart over a 7 with personality but her looks do buy her some leeway.
Certainly a guy can make the same argument about guy A with X material vs guy B who is funny and charming but broke as a joke. - 3 months ago
For me it's always the personality that inclined me to ask a girl out. Now obviously she has to be attractive as well. You fall in lust with the body, but you fall in love with the personality(spirit). Those guys are either very immature, or you are so hot that they can't help themselves. If it's the latter, you can try wearing looser clothing, or clothing that doesn't reveal your sexy curves as much and see what happens.
Most guys do it. I think for a lot of them it's just kind of a habit. You'll never know at first if a guy is just interested in your body or not. Unfortunately that's just how it works. Both good guys and bad guys alike will be attracted to other things initially. Then you have to figure out who's worth spending your time on and who isn't. Still, if they like your body, it's a nice problem to have. Much better than if they don't think you're hot or if you are fat or something.
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