I've had a boyfriend for 1 year and 5 months but not sure if I should have sex with him?

This is an age old question, the mere fact that you are asking it means that you have answered it in your own mind. I don't think that its appropriate for someone to say you will do it if you love me!, as your answer should always be "if you loved me you wouldn't force me to!

I think dakadan is slightly misplaced in saying that all morality is based around controlling you, the truth of it lies more in the fact that there are a set of guides that help or hinder you, each of us should develop our own moral compass with the help of others, and we normally look at those we admire most to develop this.

At the end of the day, what you do, and when, is your choice, remember sex is the only thing you really given at birth that YOU choose to give away. make sure its an investment in you.

Without a doubt, if you have to come here and ask a bunch of strangers if you should have sex, you should not. You have sex when you want to have sex, not when strangers say too.

Don't every have sex to "prove" your love. Only have sex if and when you are ready for it. I'm sure he is going a little crazy, but that is not your responsibility. Your responsibility is to yourself.

Now, you might look the reason you don't want to have sex. After all it is a natural act especially with the hormones that are running through your body at the moment. Many of the religions have tried to teach against nature that having sex is bad and wrong. I think the church has caused more harm than good in this case. Remember, morals are something made up by others so that they can control your behavior and increase their own power.

I would really take a look at what it is that you want. You also may not be emotionally ready to have intercourse, but there are many other things you can do to relieve both him and you that don't require intercourse such as hand jobs, blow jobs, dry humping ,etc.

Look, you're still really young. You don't have to prove anything, screw that. I wouldn't tell you not to do it, but what I would tell you is to only do it if you feel ready. Don't do it just because he's ready. There will always be a guy who's ready, it's still your body and your decision.

If he LOVES you, waiting for you is his "proof". He wouldn't put you under that pressure if he honestly cared more about you, than himself gettin off.