Guys how would you feel?

Well, I have purchased those kind of products for my girlfriends in the past, so it's not a big thing to me. A lot of times, when a woman cannot reach an orgasm with her sexual partner, the blame is put in the wrong place, specially by the guy. Men are all too often stuck on the size of our "things" as the cause of sexual problems. Many times, the reason that a woman cannot climax is due to comfort, about herself sexually. By yourself, things are safe, comfortable, easier. Since he has seen it and not mentioned it, my guess is that he wants you to bring it up. Acting like it doesn't exist is going to make him feel very inadequate because he will have thousands of thoughts running around in his head that he will never talk to you about. I suggest bringing it into you guys sexual life. Don't make it about him. Tell him you have a double penetration fantasy, which is very common, and that you would like to try it with him. That way he won't feel demasculated and he will get to try something kinky. And so will you!

this cannot go on. The relationship is doomed unless you teach him how to make proper love to you. But he won't be completely to blame either.

A man would feel really crappy if he realized that he couldn't satisfy the woman he loves.

Explore, discover, there are many things out there to learn. Tantra is a very valuable asset in sex I believe.

Sex, it really create love. If sex is bad, you'l lose attraction, and the love will be lost. Admiration will be lost. It must be a mutual exploration. your man should know that you can have at least 10 orgasm if you like. your man should know that AFTERPLAY is as important as foreplay. You should know this. without this sex is empty and unfullfilling. masturbation can only satisfy you if you do not know the excstacy of great love making. it can be divinely beautiful.. Take a lover... this will help.

hay hay capt. ; )

Girl that is a loaded question. Every guy is different about his ability to be adequate to satisfy his woman. MACHO guys are the worst. Some make up excuses like it is your fault and others have been told it is impossible to get a woman off. Either way you need to address this NOW rather than later. First thing is get honest in your relationship or get out. If your with a man you can not discuss sex with then what is gonna happen when you have much more difficult items to discuss. How is he suppose to know what would help get you off he is just a guy with a hard on. Are you sure your tripping his trigger or just getting off . You both are suffering a less than adequate sex life. It sounds like both of you are a bit prudish. Remember the most important thing is HONESTY and Ability to converse. SEX is an art of the mind , making love is an emotional experience,and fu-king is for fun. All three can happen and should

hey Sarah I'm back. yea remember guys masturbate a lot so a girl doing it is not a bad thing. a lot of girls have the opposite problem wear they don't want to have sex with the guy. so when the guy is the less sexual one he can relate usually. cause we go threw that with girls. I would talk to him and tell him how you really feel about sex. once you tell him he may feel more comfortable with you. I have thought of taking the anonymous off more with you because you are easier to talk to then most girls with this stuff. let him see that side of you. tell him you want more. its really a turn on for a girl to be more aggressive.

I love the thought of female masturbation. I just don't want to miss out on it. There is just something so beautiful about watching a woman bring herself to pleasure. I know how difficult it is for some women to reach orgasm, and I don't think women realize that we would not be offended by it at all if after getting us off, you allowed us to share in your own orgasm. My wife is guilty of this. She has told me that she would wait till after sex, and then go in the other room and then finish herself off at times. Why did I miss out on that. She saw me finish.I would love to see hers. Don't deprive us of that intimacy.

Have you tried masturbating during sex? I once dated a girl who had a hard time getting off until I talked her into doggie style so I could give her a reach-around and get her off, which worked well. After a few times she was masturbating herself during doggie style and getting off every time. Then I went and bought her one of those little buzzers that slips onto your finger and she had multiple orgasms during sex.

On a side note, if you're faking orgasms so he thinks you're getting off.don't. Personally I prefer to know what kind of progress I'm making, and have gotten pretty good at holding back until I hear her cumming - something that takes a lot of practice and muscle squeezing, but in the long run is very, very worthwhile. As far as the toy goes, I prefer to go buy it for her or take her to get one as opposed to letting her go to one of those shops by herself, here they're pretty filthy places.

I feel that it is the woman first! I try for at least three for her. If she is really hopped up then I go for more. I know that sooner or later I will have mine.(see us poor guys only get one)
I think it's common for younger girls not to have an orgasm during intercourse. I'm not sure why. I don't know if that comes with more experience or age.
I see nothing wrong with using your "little helper" during sex. We have one & sometimes lying on our side with me behind (I'm in of course) I'll take the "little helper" reach around and use it. Sometimes she will take it from me & well go with it. It works out well.
I also think that he should be more concerned & conscious of you. If he's with you & you use it in different situations so what. It's not that he's inadequate it is helping to enhance the pleasure. Look at it anyway you want I don't see it as masturbation BUT I also like to walk in on her when she is warming up with something like that. It's a Hugh turn on for me.
Sometimes when he's not around or it's late at night & the mood strikes you need your little helper. I would bet money that he is masturbating if your not with him or available to help him out.

Start it off as a game. Give it to him and let him do the job. He'll be happy.

I would want to watch. If your with me, bring it to bed and we will wear down the batteries before the sex even starts. Can you work up the courage to try this? It will pay off for you. :)

for most guys, it would be a turn on. I know because I was in the same situation! literally word-for-word. my boyfriend didn't really like having sex, and that was okay with me. I'm a very sexual person and I would NEVER cheat on him so I just used a vibrator. (almost everyday if not more) ne ways, I went into the bathroom, cleaned it, and forgot to put it away. he took a piss and was like, "WTF? what is that?" and I told him, without him even knowing before. he was a little angry (because he's a little prude-ish) and didn't really seemed to care after that.

later on, I told him if he would be okay and comfortable watching me play with myself. and he said no at first, then leaned toward saying yes.

now, he loves watching me play with myself and knows that I can get sex from myself, and would never cheat, because I have my little friend!

-hope that helps! (^_^)