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Yes, I think that girls and women alike are afraid to talk about a lot of sexual things. The truth is that women aren't like sex in the city. Even with someone that the are sexually comfortable with, I have noticed shyness a lot. I dated a girl that, for over a year wouldn't tell me she wanted anal sex. A lot of women are raised to think sex is dirty, so having a desire like that made her feel a little dirty. After she was honest and I was receptive and I took the time to be sweet about the situation and try to make it not seem so dirty, she was a lot happier in our sex life together. Instead of sugar-coating it with a Q&A session. You need to have a nice chat about sex without skirting the issue. Possibly, after a couple of cocktails, in a private and comfortable setting. Let her know that you are willing to try anything she wants and that you want to make her happy. Then, she will either tell you or she won't. Hey, that's women for ya. =)
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