How do you let your man know your not satisfied and you need more? Do you straight tell him, give hints, ignore him and hope his dense male brain figures it out?
Oh baby, say it ain't so! Oh yeah, now I am following you. =) Anyways, dense male brain? Yeah, we can be a little dense about certain things. I think the best thing to do in your situation is to forget the hints and the next time the two of you are intimate, say something like " I have been afraid to ask you, but I would like to try something new." Don't just tell him that you aren't satisfied because that will hurt him and he will lose what sexual confidence he had. Make it a question and then guide him through the whole process. Guys are eager to learn as much as they can about pleasing a woman, unless they are rich, lol. Seriously, though I know that I am very interested in finding out what my girls like right away. He should be just as excited as you to try some new things. Or you could just drive for three days or so to the great north woods and I know a guy who could help you out, lol. Best of luck.
Good question: I think that you should tell him that you love him (if you do haha) but that he's not doing enough. You should tell him that you will lead him if necessary.
Sarah, you didn't tell me that it was 7 long years. HOW do you teach that dog a new trick? Love is one thing but did you ever think about a new one(guy) ?
LOL! In all seriousness I think I know what the 7 year itch is all about. Lately all I can do is fantasize about other men. I have been looking for male attention that he isn't giving me. Not to mention his new work schedule has him up at 2:30 so he goes to bed way early. He is asleep on the couch right now!! - 3 months ago
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Now I'm really sorry. I didn't mean for you to find a new guy (sort of) but you have your needs. I can understand that he's tired with his hours but he still needs to be told or like I said before simply tell him that your not done grab the toy & go from there. You can't be too shy after 7 years now can you? Go for it & see what happens. - 3 months ago
Rule nº51571882 in the rule book: if you want to tell a male something, you gotta SAY it! Come on, we all know we are not very bright at guessing or getting hints, so the only way is telling us! You have to say it in a way that doesn't seem too aggressive, or you can get to hurt our inner male ego (we all do have one)
well, its been a little while but the last time this happened I got sort of mean. I told him he wasnt going anywhere til I got mine and I held him there against his. of course that probably wouldn't have worked if I weren't taller and stronger than he was.
well just hint it to him that you want kinkier sex. Like bring something up like "i saw this new position online and I wanted to try it" them he will do it because he likes sex
Honey I look them up print them out and leave them on the steering wheel for him to find and think about all day. New positions are not my problem. My problem is they are so awesome he finishes even faster! - 3 months ago
Does he masturbate regularly? He could wear two condoms. There's also this desensitizing spray you can buy that he can spray on himself but you have to use a condom, I don't think you'd want the lidocaine up in there. He should learn about keegle (sp?) exercises too, I've been doing those for a long time and they're great, they help you hold out longer. It's a simple exercise, I think best described by 'trying to stop peeing' that squeeze you do then, that's the exercise basicly (do 50 ata time) - 2 months ago
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Him lasting long enough once penetration begins is not a problem. I don't orgasm from penetration anyway. I need him to finish me in other ways. Very good advice endymion. - 2 months ago
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Tell him how you feel. I know you love him and want things to work out but obviously he is a little controlling. The next time he gets like that, tell him your feelings.
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