Having sex with my ex?

It takes time for a guy to figure out what gets a girl off sometimes. Some girls I have given multiples right away. Others, its a struggle. If you were with him a long time the he probably got "used to" having sex with you and was able to last longer and figure out what speed you like, what extras you like ( hair pulling, ect), and was able to please you. It a a lot harder for a guy to go from relationship mode to friend mode. You might be dragging his feelings through a whirlwind if you sleep with him. If you don't want him back, I say nay on the sex. Take a new guy and train him in. And I will have the first try, please. Hehe, kidding. Seriously though, is it really worth hurting someone you cared or care about just for a little personal gratification? That's the question to ask yourself.

Haha wow you sound like this girl who was the ex of this guy I was hooking up with. he said that his ex still wanted to have sex with him. Maybe we should trade this guy's name, lol, jk. It's probably not the same guy. Anyway, I wouldn't worry too much about that. I suggest you try taking it slow, and not having sex for a while. Maybe masturbate or something, but no sex. Then you can see other guys for what they are, and you can stop having sex with your ex.