I had sex. he was a virgin, and I lied?

First off, it isn't any of your business what they do, how they do it, or how he performs. I find it strange that you think you can actually "stop him" from having another sexual experience. I also have my doubts you would be able to convince him not to have sex in the first place.

Don't worry about it, after he has sex a few times, he will get good at it. Don't be so concerned about other people having sex, unless you happen to be in love with him?

On another note, when people "believe" in themselves, miracles can happen. You did nothing wrong by complimenting him. you do care about him after all.



Sorry if I seem like I am being rough on you but trying to control someone elses sex life or trying to deny him another experience seems a bit arrogant even if you really feel that you are just trying to "save him".

you are a good FRIEND wow you even care about him while he is sticking his rod up some girl a**. are you sure you're not in love with him ? well that not the point. now then it think it is best for him to take the shower(have sex ) without knowing he was bad or else you will turn a a godzilla to a she-goat . if he get knock down he will learn if you fill he got knocked out and dumped buy him some chocolate I hope you wouldn't go again lets have sex unless you really in love with this guy

If she is such a slut, she has probably had her fair share of guys that were not any good in bed. You should just let it be, even if she tells him he was worthless in bed, he will just think that he wasnt good with her, or she didn't like his style, or whatever. Point is, he will think that you said he was good, so he will probably figure that he can't be all that bad. If you and she both tell him, it will hurt this guy a lot more. Every time I got head from a girl and it was bad, I told them I liked it, then I would say something like. if you want to make me finish a little faster, try this. if you were a little more gentile with it, not that it was bad. I just gave her a little helping hand and hoped the next guy would do the same and she would get better. Sexuality can be rough stuff at first, until you figure things out, he will, given time. Don't make it harder on the guy.

Just let him have sex with the girl; he might have been a bad lover to you, but maybe he was a good lover to the other girl; either way, that's how we males learn. One girl will tell you, "geez, that really sucked", or 'i never had an orgasm like that.'

Back in my inexperienced days though, a lot of girls will make a comment like, 'oh that was great, but what about you try this technique next time.' Of course, I thought, 'wow, didn't think of that, thanks for the tip.' however, that was their subtle way of telling me, 'you sucked, this is how you do it, moron." hahahaha So for your next virgin, instead of lying, you can say, "yep, you were good, but to make it even better, here are some tips".cause hell, is not like as a virgin you're going to perform like a porn star! :S

Just let it be. Sometimes when people get to feelin themselves a little too much, nothing anyone can say will change how they feel. Maybe you should just leave it alone and let him see how "good" or "bad" he is. If she lets him know he sucks, then he will just have to take that as it is. It's a learning process. If he has any sens, he would know that it isn't always that a virgin will just instantly become great at sex after just the first time. Maybe a girl like her is what he needs to bring him back down.

Just let it be! If he was just a FWB with you and now has a girlfriend he'll just have to learn on his own. You were trying to be nice to him but since he chose her then let her handle the situation. It's not your responsibility to take care of his sexual needs or ability. He made the choice so let him live with it. If this is how fast he chooses a girl to be his girlfriend then so be it. Besides, he shouldn't be so dumb to think he's great if in fact he isn't!

I agree with the other people. I think you should just let it be. I know you probably still care about him but its no longer your problem. Maybe he has improved since he's been with you and if not and the girl tells him so be it maybe she'll even give him some pointers for the next time or the next girl. LOL!

Just let it be, cause if you tell him that now,he probably will think you are jealous. He may also get mad at you are he may think you are joking,but I say just leave it alone. He's not going to be all that hurt,come on now,anyway it go,he's still getting laid so let it be.