Fake orgasm.?

have you tried different positions that worked for my girl friend she like to do it on the coach where the guy is sitting upright and she on top that normally works for her

Sounds like all your guy is doing is shoving it in. The majority of women cannot climax through intercourse alone. They need foreplay that involves direct clitoral stimulation.

Your problem is that your guy isn't that good in the sack and you're not helping matters by making him think that he is. A girls reaction and body language tells the guy if he's doing things right and your signals are telling him that he's doing great. Stop lying to him and tell him what you want and/or need in order to climax.

Ok, if you have ever made yourself have an orgasm, then you probably know if you are clitorally stimulated or internally stimulated, or maybe a bit of both. I once had a girlfriend who was totally clitorally stimulated so I would work and work that thing like a speed bag with my tongue forever until I felt as though my tongue was going to fall off, for like 45 minutes to an hour, before she would orgasm. If you don't climax internally and he lasts a good long time, doggy style is your best best position, because it puts his testicles over your clit, and honestly, they will kind of slap it gently, which may lead to more orgasms, same being true for if you are stimulated in both areas. If you are strictly an internal O kind of girl. Lay on your back and pretend your bellybutton is the 12 on a clock. The G-spot is located, usually, about 3-5 inches inside you between ten and two on the upper wall. If his penis points straight out when he is aroused, the position doesn't really matter. If his thing points up at his face when aroused, then missionary, him on top of you, is the best position. If that doesn't work, have him use his mouth and fingers to please you down there, it may take him a long time. Also, there are many toys on the market that are available in these sorts of situations. Hope I helped you a little.

Stop faking. If you don't know what gets you going, then you need to find out on your own before you can tell him. Ask him to do a bit of foreplay before sex so you can be more primed for it (I had to tell my guy to stop jumping right in too. ). Even if he has to bring you to orgasm before sex (through manual, or oral), you will be more likely to orgasm during intercourse. With a little practice & help from you(you don't have to be verbal, you can show him by moving his fingers or whatnot), he'll have you orgasming before you know it. He may just need a little direction. :)