I got raped by my boyfriend yesterday?

I can't imagine what it is like to feel this violated, but I agree with every comment on this page. You need to tell some one, NO means NO. no matter if he is your Boyfriend or not, that does not make it right!. The sad thing is you need to imagine that if you remain silent he might do this to you again, or worse to someone else.

The same thing happened to my x when she was in collage. She started seeing a new guy and a couple of evenings later he took her to his car and raped her. She felt so bad and spent days wondering if she had done anything to deserve it. To make herself feel better she said that it was her fault and she let him do it to her a couple of times till she felt that they must be going "steady". I started dating her about 5 years later and she broke down one night and told me the story. She had been feeling violated for nearly 5 years without telling anyone and it was tragic. The worst thing for her it was her brothers best friend.

Sorry to make this a long story, but I hope I have at least made the point that it is important to believe in yourself, and to believe that this should NEVER happen to you.

I am sure that everyone who comments will agree that we will all support you and we hope that your family does as well.

it should not matter what state of mind he was in Rape and rape.
just like killing is killing.
Get rid of him and tell some one. up to you who. he needs to show you respect

Im sorry, but you know you should go to the police instead of being here talking to us. If you don't, I will start to feel a lot less bad for ya. Just being honest.

first off I agree with everyone else,but it seems to me that your thinking of letting it go because of the alcohol and the fact he's your boyfriend.
I also was raped by my EXboyfriend 2 years ago and he wasnt even drunk,me being a virgin and so naive I let it go and kept it a secret.i still beat myself up about it till this day.
But I also feel that you need to ask him if he was aware or remember.and trust me you will be able to tell if he's lying.
Please don't be stupid and let it go tell someone

Tell someone it doesn't matter who just as long as they can help you. this almost happened to me before but the guy was my brothers friend and he was drunk to but I overpowered him and got away but I didn't tell anyone because I was scared but then I told my friends and my mom and my boyfriend (I started dating him after this happened) but by the time I told people he was already in jail for something else and it was too late to do something about it anyway! but you need to tell some one I know how you feel your hurt you never thought he would do that to you but he did and this was NOT your fault so don't blame it on yourself or anyone else blame you! good luck and you ever need anything I'm here for you!

i agree with the others. there is no excepting for his behavior. you do need to tell your parents and the police like yesterday. the longer you wait to call the less likely you will be able to do something about it. they will want to know why you didn't call right away. so get on that phone!

Honestly tell someone. Things are not going 2 b easy but he could do it again even 2 someone he doesn't know and would you want some other girl going through that?

U have 2 realize though it was not ur fault you done nothin wrong at all and even though he was drunk he still knew what he was doin. He may think he would have got away with it when he was drunk but its not the case. you can't let him get away from hurtin you like that.

Sorry 2 hear he done that on you but good luck not all guys are like that

Alcohol is not an excuse, he knew what he was doing and was WRONG! I'm sorry this happened to you, no one deserves this. Tell your parents and the police. It doesn't matter if he's your boyfriend or not, he had no right to force you to have sex. He deserves to be in jail getting raped his damn self.