So my girlfriend and I have started to have sex. We are both madly in love, and up until recently have always used a condom, and she is also on the pill. I've tried but she said when we use a condom she really can't feel anything, and we tried without a condom once, and she loved it to no end. I have not been able to make her come yet outside of fingering and oral. I think I would be able to if I didn't wear a condom. but what are our alternatives? She thinks its impossible for her to finish with one, but I had her close one time. Are there any specific positions or advice I could have, to make it as enjoyable as possible with a condom, and make her cum? Or if she's taking the pill faithfully should I just give up on it? (We are both completely clean) Thank you, we both enjoy the sex and she's ok that she isn't finishing, but it would just make it so much better for me if I could do that for her.
I hate to say this but if she is like me she is not ok without finishing. I should say that as long as you are pleasing her often by other means it would be ok with me. The pill is very sneaky and I know many a woman who has gotten pregnant while taking it. For some women if you are an hour off that is all it takes. My husband and I never plan on having children but don't want to go as far as a vasectomy and hate using a condom. To try and explain it is almost a numbing feeling I'm sure you guys have too. You two should do some research on IUD's. I had one placed 2 months ago and it was pretty painful for about 5 days but is totally fine now. IUD's are one of the most effective forms of birth control and are said to be as effective as tubal ligation. They come in hormonal and non hormonal forms and last 5-10 years depending on what type. I got the non hormonal one and being off hormones for the first time in 5 years has made me so horny and I've lost weight! She just has to get through the first week and I think it is worth it. I hope this helped :)
from my experience, condomless does feel a thousand times better, but the sex is still good either way. if you're both comfortable with not using protection, then by all means go for it. I doubt she's trying to trick you into getting her pregnant, since she's on the pill and its 99% effective vs. condoms which are around 86% effective with average use (without any other forms of birth control). if it's better for both of you, then go for it.
im sorry but I think this is bullshit what your girlfriend is saying because there is no difference in feeling it with or without a condom , maybe she is trying to trap you by getting pregnant but telling you she is on the pill, I would be very wary of this because its no different with a condom
To me having sex with a condom makes him feel fake. Having sex without a condom feels like I'm having sex with a real man. There is a total difference. - 3 months ago
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try "from behind" positions.or you could just pull out when your gunna blow lol
"Pulling out" should only be used as a means 2get "the money shot" when shooting a porno, & if you notice in almost all porn shot nowadays the guys are wearing condoms.
I know someone is is thinking "See, it can be done. You just admitted it."
Let me remind you, when you shoot a film, if you screw up you can just reshoot the scene. Life just don't work that way! What's more there are somethings that you can't take a mulligan on, so cover your club before you sink your put, or you may find yourself sunk. - 3 months ago
try using an ultra thin condom or a trojan "her pleasure" or a textured one. look for ribbed condoms which should give the condom a texture to make her feel something.
the her pleasure ones have been a huge success on my girlfriend and she literally screams when I enter her with one of those on. this may sound extremely over exaggerated but it's not. however she is vocal so that may be why.
also an alternate method is to eat her out for a while before you enter her so she'll be so much closer to that point.
or you could also go condomless since she is on the pill if you trust her entirely.
I've been using durex ultra sensitive, which is great for me but maybe the lubrication is why she feels just 'slippery' and nothing. So maybe the ribbed would be a good idea! - 2 months ago
Due to the shape of the penis in most men, and the location of the G-spot in most women - yes, there really is one, though some women are more sensitive to it than others - the best positions are with her doggie style (on all fours), facing away from you, of course, with you entering from behind her, or with you lying on your back, her on top, again, facing away from you.
These positions tend to cause more contact between the penis and the G-spot, which tends to offer her greater enjoyment, and you may find you feel a lot more too. Some tactile stimulation of her clitoris and vagina, along with a little oral, before you enter her, might also add to the stimulation she feels once you enter her.
Did ya try the ones that say "Ribbed for her pleasure"? How about the "French Tickler"? If neither of those do it for her Trojan's makes a vibrating condom now (I think there are a few different companies that make um but Trojan was the first one that came to mind). And no you don't have to go to a "sex shop" to find them, I just saw them in Walgreen's the other day.
The thing is though why not keep trying to find something a condom that feels good, since ya know its safer than doing it without one on?
Let me repeat that; The thing is though why not KEEP TRYING.
If nothing else ya get to use the line "I am willing to do it again and again for as long as it takes to find one that works the way you want it to. Even if that means doing it 3 or 4 I mean 10 or 15 times a day. What ever it takes, I mean it!"
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