If a guy is 23 and has had about 9 sexual partners (not all sex, but sexual stuff) and only 4 actual relationships), what would that make him? A girl would be judged harshly, but what about a guy?
Also, what do you think about a girl throwing herself at a guy (i.e. putting her head on his lap, then running around at a party naked and making out with her girl friend to get his attention)? And if the guy then does stuff with her, does that say anything about him?
Update: what if this happened when he was young (7 years ago, when he was 16) and he's changed - he says those kinds of girls were fine at the time, but he doesn't go for easy girls (or even ones that come on strong) and wants something more meaningful/committed
3 months ago
Update: We've been together 2 years (I was a virgin) and we love each other, talking about marriage. I only found out now because I asked and it bothers me - should it? You can't change the past, and he said if he found me first I would have been the only one.
3 months ago
I think for men, its the opposite of "slutty"\ I have been REJECTED by women because I was a virgin, I gave up counting how many times women have told me they want an "experienced man in bed who knows what he is doing!" so what that tell me is, if men DONT sleep around, we are not good enough for the woman in question!
I have been referred to as a manwhore before. But, no, I would not that Mr. 23 year old would be one. And I don't see myself as one. I'm just too picky. If I found a girl who could reach my totally unreachable mental pic of the perfect girl, I would be a one girl kinda man, lol.
u shouldn't let it bother you simply because it's in the past. You weren't with him and he was young and havin a laugh I'm sure so there is no need 4 you 2 worry or let it bother u. You should look towards the future and not live in the past. Good Luck
you can't beat up a dick, only a pussy. lol, but its the truth. its not possible to have too much sex if your a guy, but it would denfinitely concern me. (ie: STD, relationship issues, cheating, etc) I think this guy just wants change. it was just a phase.
guys can easily be sluts, but it always will stop with the only person he'd rather be easy with.guys are easy like girls are easy cause they haven't found the person that they can f*** forever with without too little change.trust me, I was pretty promiscuous myself during college, but I don't regret it, how else would I have learned my true sexual nature.sex is never a bad thing, just as long as you are in control of your safety and well being.which brings lots of positive mental and physical energy (which is great for the person who always gets to be promiscuous with you!)
Yes, guys are the "sluts". They can go in and out of these one-night relationships having sex without feeling the damage as hard as a girl does. It is mainly physical and does not damage them emotionally the way it does a girl. Sure, both one-night guys and girls can enjoy the sex, but it is the girls that feel the guilt/shame for themselves. How many girls do you hear bragging about their endeavors like most men? This is not to say that all guys have no emotional connection to sex, but relatively speaking, it is nothing compared to what a woman relates sex to when she is sleeping around.
I think the girls that are promiscuous are just THAT - promiscuous. I have not met a promiscuous girl that has slept with a lot of men who is not ashamed of herself for it. She won't admit her sexual gallivanting to her girlfriends because it is not something that she is proud of. But it is something that she needs. Whether to fill a void, or attempt a relationship, or attract attention to herself. I believe that it is totally different intentions from a male slut.
The girl in that situation is obviously looking for attention. And the guy is a slut, looking for sex.
thats actually not a lot of partners for a 23 year old guy! so I wouldn't call him a male slut at all, and if he got with a girl who had no respect for herself by running around naked at a party well I definitely wouldn't want to go near a guy who goes for that kind a girl and it shows there thinking with there dick only
girls or guys havin a number of sexual partners means nothin 2 me. If a girl/guy can remember every1 they slept with then it means at sum point they cared 4 that person which is y they done it. if on the other hand its pure random 1 night stand not even gettin the other persons name doin it every week then I don't think it's very nice but totally up 2 them.
Ur second second just shows the guy has no standards and probably is just out 2 get what he can get and more fool the girl really as that kind of stuff only gets guys 4 the wrong reasons. I can bet now he isn't going out with her or probably even talked 2 her from he done stuff with her.
I don't remember some of the girls names I have slept with and never even knew one of their names. I am not proud of that, but I was young, dumb and full of c-u-m. I don't think it means a whole lot cuz, I have grown wiser and now I am looking for the right stuff. So, just remember, people do change. - 3 months ago
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I totally agree with people do change as they grow up and I know a lot of people have 1 nyt stands I've had 1 and I don't disagree with them all I'm sayin is 2 much of them as you start 2 get older may b frowned upon - 2 months ago
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