.i'm not sure if I want to have sex with him. he is a player and has had it about 100 times with 100 different girls. I am a virgin, and kind of like him. he has said he's wanted to do it more then once. should I give in? to me sex isn't really a big deal, but once I have it I don't know if I'll regret it or not. any advice?
DO NOT GIVE IT TO HIM! You just summed it up! He is a player, your a virgin, and sex isn't a big deal to you. Dump him before he dumps you. He is not for you!
I think that after a "player" gets it & then the next one comes along there will be no friendship. I'm pretty sure that you will regret giving up your "V" card to a player. Please wait to find someone that loves you & wants to be with just you. WHY do you want to be one of the 100's? There isn't any rush to do this you know!
I always say, a woman's intuition is always right; you already have doubts about doing it, so if you do it, you will regret it big time; I have seen this happened before, and I will guarantee you that you will be very depressed about it and feel dirty about what you did. Also, once you get conquered, this guy will leave you cause all you're good for is sex. If you don't believe me, go ahead adn do it,and just let us know how long did it take for him to pull a houdini on you.
Now, look at your own statement: "to me sex isn't really a big deal." Really? If it wasn't, you would have had sex already in a heart beat. Stand by your morals and don't be afraid what others think of you. To you sex is a big deal, otherwise, you would be out there having sex like a porn star.
So that you know, us guys, love to brag about deflowering virgins. I have said this many time, and even though you'll hear guys denying it, I cannot remember of one time when a guy had a virgin and didn't come out and tell the guys how he broke another hymen. We drink to that. So if you're gonna get devirgnized, at least have the dignity to do it with somebody who likes you and respects you, and not with a player.
Okay thanks for the advice. your absolutely right, I'm not ready. and ya I do kind of wonder what std he has. - 2 months ago
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first of all if he's a player obviously he won't stick around so realize that upfront. and second even if sex isn't something big for you do realize that it does affect you psychologically . the moment things turn different from what your expecting you will regret it. and it will suck. and the moment you said no and he still persisted means he's just in it for the sex
I wish he wasnt such a douche. I like him and I really don't want to. weve hooked up twice, I feel like I wouldn't regret it if I did it. but I would get very upset if it affected out friendshp, not that were like best friends or anything - 2 months ago
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Well that,s up to you. but a douche is a douche and what ever you do know what it is your getting yourself into. and realize that it is hard for a women to take emotion out of acts like that. so think about how would you feel in the worst case scenario. because that's usually the one that's going to happen. - 2 months ago
Oo Wow.The same thing happened to me.Hes a player f***ed 1OO of times.I was a virgin& sex wasn't a big deal to me. But we did end up doing it. & now he ignores me.He Got what he wanted so he left! & now I regret giving it to him You always remember your First.So make sure you really want to give it to him & won't regret it!
Okay, thanks for reassuring me not to. I already decided that there is no way I am going to do it with him. as much as I want to have sex, its not going to be with someone that treats me like that. id rather wait. - 2 months ago
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Its better waiting then giving it to someone who doesn't know how to treat a lady=] - 2 months ago
make sure it's not going to be just about the sex. because if you have sex with him and he leaves you high and dry, that's not a good feeling.
I remember when I lost my virginity to this guy I liked. in the middle of doing it, he screamed in my face, "you're not a virgin, you f*ckin liar!". and left. The feeling I felt when he left is unexplainable. it's a feeling beyond hurt.
Make sure you really are ready. I recommend doing it with someone you love or really really care about. Don't let him pressure you into it. Only if YOU'RE ready.
My answer is no! If you know he's a player and you're a virgin you are just going to end up hurt. Plus I don't think you would want to give your virginity to someone who just sees you as another number in his pool of girls he's banged. You want to give your virginity to someone you really care about, love and trust. And a player is not that. My advice? Forget about this douche bag. He just wants to do it with you so you'll be another girl he can brag about. Don't fall for it.
Wait ! Don't do it . You are already questioning it and it hasn't even happened. Don't do anything you are not ready for. As you said he is a player don't let him take advantage of you. You are better than that. So I say don't do it !
do it when your ready! don't ever do anything you don't want to do! if you have sex and you have a feeling you might regret it don't do it! take you time because once its gone its gone
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