I can't have an orgasm?

You said you can't have an orgasm with him. So you've had orgasm's with other men?

If you really want to be with this guy, then this may be a sacrifice you'll have to stand.

If sexual gratification is a priority in your life, then you'll have to decide if this guy is important enough to keep, or if you'll need to end the relationship.

I have to ask: have you ever had an orgasm? If not, then it may not be anything he's doing or not doing and has more to do with what's going on in your head.

If you have had orgasms with other guys (or yourself alone) then you're going to have to guide him to the right techniques that work for you. "Baby, I love it when you do _____" or "I would love for you to ________". We aren't mind readers and can only go by your verbal and body language which will tell us if we're on the right track.

A good sex life is important in a relationship. If you do feel that it's necessary for yours then don't give up on that need. There are too many other things in a relationship that we all have to compromise on.

Are you retarded? "I LOVE HIM SO MUCH, SHOULD I CHEAT?" Here's what you do. Break up with this poor fool, get a vibrator, and then get a boyfriend when you're ready for one.

many women actually go their entire lives without their men giving them orgasm. I've been trying to give my girl an orgasm for several months now and am still not successful. some women actually go their entire lives without orgasm. if you really need to orgasm, maybe try rubbing yourself and if he's willing to, have him eat you out for a while before you actually start having sex. that should get you a little closer to orgasming and the rest is up to your man. or your fingers if all else fails.

Many, if not most girls do not orgasm from penetration alone. This is just a fact of life. I would try talking to him about it again, but maybe explaining from the stand point that most women don't orgasm from penetration. Temptation falls gave some good advice by trying to do other things to supplement your sexual encounters (longer foreplay, rubbing, etc.). And, depending on what you guys are into, you can play with toys, oils, etc., to heighten both yours and his sexual experience. But again, I would talk to him and see what he's in to, and avoid being like "I just CANT orgasm with you. blah blah blah", so he doesn't feel unmanly or whatever kind of complex guys get when you try to talk them about this sort of thing. lol. hope this helps and good luck!