There's this boy who's about 3 years older than me and we have had sex multiple times and just last week he was really horny when we were alone but we couldn't do anything because we were outside in public. We were never going out with each other when we had sex but I always thought that we kind of loved each other.
He just got a girlfriend. Before I'd hear him talking about her to his friends saying things like "you can have her, I don't really care about her." But she asked him out and now I'm so incredibly jealous. Is he going to stop having sex with me forever? Will he just forget about me because he has a new girlfriend? She's not even that pretty! ...I think...
you girls need to stop bein young hoes, I'm not trying to be disrespectful but you have no place in doing anything sexual with a guy whos 3 years older than you, specially some clown who just wants 2 use and abuse young pussy, deal wit the realness
I think it's best to stop thinking about him. I know that's tough maybe the hardest thing but really you should just play it cool. Trade secret: act like it doesn't bother you and he will be jealous of you.
Oh yeah, just go around having sex with random guys a bunch of times and then wonder what's wrong when he gets a girlfriend :S Like most guys want sex, you don't just give guys what they want for fun.
Honestly it sounds like he has always loved you but is too scared to actually make a commitment for fear of who knows what. Maybe how you would feel about it. Maybe he thought that all he was was a booty call to you? It sounds like he's going out with her to make you jealous to find out how you really feel or make you want him back?
Gosh, I'm going through the exact same thing and I'm thinking like you do. I'm not quite sure what to do, but I'm just going to move on. I'm always going to like him and I told him that I would always be willing to be in a relationship with him no matter what happens with him and his g|f, but that's me and I might be stupid, maybe you should consider moving on and he might realize, hey she's not going to wait around on me, so maybe I should catch her before it's to late. and if he cares anything about you, he will let you know what he thinks.
Heyy! my suggestion is to move on. Don't worry about him he ain't worth it if y'all have had sex and it doesn't mean anything to him! he isn't worth it. find a better guy!
Ok, honey, not too long ago, I was in a similar situation as you. Very, very similar situation.
and you know what, you gotta move on. This guy is clearly a player and you deserve better.
i know what it's like though, I had the hardest time getting myself over the guy I had the similar situation with. It took awhile, but now, all I can think is "what the hell was I thinking? "
Sweetheart if he has gotten a girlfriend then big newsflash you were not that important to him. Jealousy is normal when you had feelings for him but evidently his feelings for you were not strong.
I have the same problem as well. This guy that I've been hanging out with is four years older then me and we almost had sex. We were in the middle, undressed, foreplay and condom ready. I really like this guy and he likes me, I think?
Sorry I really don't have some advice but if you get any, do you mind passing it my way? An I'll do the same with I get advice.
He is just taking advantage of you he only crawls up too you when he wants sex. Don't feel bad because he has a girlfriend. Just move on, it's hard to say that he's got feelings for you because if he did he would show it to you instead of caring so much about sex.
I think it's hard not to love someone if you have sex with them. At least for girls, I mean. I think you should find a better guy and forget about him. It sounds like he really doesn't care about any girls, and as much as you probably don't want to hear that, I think it's what you need to do.
If you have sex without a commitment, getting hurt is inevitable... I think you should try to move on and you never know maybe you'll meet some even better and who knows maybe someday there will be a proper relationship between you two but...for now I think it's best to try to get over him.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
