Question for other girls with no libido?

I usually have a libido in the negative numbers, but found that reading graphic erotica/smutty stories or even watching clips of porn or looking at graphic images online right before going to bed will make me highly, highly interested in having sex - which makes for a happy hubby. On top of this, I have found that the main thing is to be sure you get an orgasm every time - that really helps you to learn to look forward to future sessions too. If you're not achieving orgasm every time now, then it's up to you to fix it. He's going to orgasm every single time, and so should you. Get a vibrator, like another post said - one with variable speeds, and take charge of your own pleasure and have fun. For myself and several other friends who have libido problems, this is probably the single thing that has helped us the most. If you ARE achieving orgasm every time, get a vibrator anyway. :-D

are you on birth control? because that can sometimes effect it. I've read a lot of places that horny goats weed works. [lol I'm not joking. look it up]. I'm debating on getting it [because I'm having the same problem because of the birth control that I'm on] if that doesn't work, then go buy a vibrator, watch porn and see if that helps. I hear a lot that once you use a vibrator a few times, then its easier to get aroused. hope this helps some.

use bottled lubrication

If I have no libido it's usually because of something that is lacking. Stress, low point in my relationship with my SO, or even low self esteem. These all affect it. Could any of these be hindering you?