I can never get my mind off sex. I am constantly telling sex jokes, making comments about sex, and just being a total pervert. But not in the way that makes people uncomfortable, I'm the pervert that makes everyone laugh their butts off with what I say. The problem is I don't know if that makes a guy not like you. One of my guy friends told me it makes a guy think you put out, and I don't. So should I stop the sex jokes?
Your friend is pretty close to right. If all you do is talk about sex, then guys are going to get the impression that sex is all that you are about. They are going to ask you out thinking that you are a sexual woman. If you are not that type of girl, then you will get labeled a tease. Guys ask out girls based on what they see in a girl first. Signs that they put off in the first place. I guess you need to ask yourself what qualities you want a guy to like you for. Do you want guys to like you for your sex jokes of for something else? If it is something else, then I would suggest you start working on building up those qualities instead of your stand up comedy act. Good luck.
Anyone with even a shred of intelligence will tell you that there is a time and a place for everything. So, if those two conditions have been met then, DO IT TO IT GIRL!
Oh and as for guys thinking that you put out; Phuk'um! Seriously teenage guys think everyone is having sex all the time and wants sex all the time; 'cause they want sex all the time. If you're wondering what this has to do with them thinking that you put out; well it's not too much of a mental leap for them to assume that either you do or you want to and if they just play it like it's no big deal then you will go along with it so you don't look like the geeky prude.
Once again I say, Phuk'um!
Not literally though, you do what you feel comfortable with, when you think it's the right time, go4it.
Anyway, hope I helped.
Oh one thing though if you would, tell us all some really funny shyt to start off the day right.
maybe you should stop a little bit, but for the record, I am the exact same way! I find that because of this, most of my friends are male. It might make some people think you put out, but if the guy is smart, he'll know that you're not a slut just because you make sex jokes.
well guys may think you put out but it just means you have a sense of humor and ur not bothered by sex like some people are. I personaly don't think you should stop but there is a certain line you shouldnt cross and that's depending on how your friends feel towards your sexual jokes
Ha I used to be like that lol I used to tell like a whole bunch of them I really don't think it makes guys think you put out because its like every guy does lol they aren't all having sex lol. Just cut back on them a bit because they can get annoying but like whenever someone says something my brain just like clicks to something perverted lol, I blame it on all my perverted guy friends in 8th grade lol. so I guess just sometimes don't say it lol, some of my friends were like omg you are gonna be a playboy bunny when you grow up and I thought they were joking but it put a little doubt in my mind that they weren't so just lay back on them a little I guess. Ya they are funny and all but some people are gonna think you are immature just how guys that always do that we think they are a little but immature so just don't tell as many ok =]
No one has ever seen me in the light of ever becoming a sex addict, and I'll ask them if I should stop saying all that and they say that I make them laugh so hard and that makes their day. I know my friends like it but I don't think guys do, one of my teachers told me it was trashy. but thanks for the reply your advise helped :) - 2 months ago
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Wow a teacher shouldn't tell you its trashy that's just like bad, but ya I guess guys kinda do tend to say more perverted stuff. Ohh and I wasn't trying to say that I mean my friends never really meant it they were just kidding around but it just made me think what do all they guys think lol.
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