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Why did my girlfriend say this?

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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)     When: 3 months ago
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My girlfriend started using her finger on me while giving oral which too my surprise felt awesome lol, couple days ago while having sex I did the same too her, even penetrated a little, I asked her if she liked it too she said yes and it seemed too excite her even more. Last night we had company over and topic of conversation led too some sex jokes whatever, A person made a comment about sex with his wife he said I don't care which hole I enjoy all, My girlfriend said well not me if my boyfriend would try too do anything there I would wonder if he's gay, What should I think about this

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Cazzie-Lou
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Cazzie-Lou (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
it's her private life and she just doesn't want people to know that she likes it there. it's personal between you two, not you two and the whole world.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
i think you should address the issue. that's kind of messed up that she said that. tell her that it bothers you that she said that, and that obviously your not gay.
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Wtfgirl
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Wtfgirl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
It's an opinion thing. Some people are ignorant about stuff like that. I mean if you were gay you wouldn't really be going out with her, you'd be chasing guys around.

Don't tell her that she's being ignorant, but just tell her that it's something you want to try. Something you want to try only with her, it'll touch her and yeah.

She said it because she thinks that anal sex is a gay person thing due to stereotypes nothing more.
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Shlei3
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Shlei3 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
It's not gay at all. The thing with anal is that it hits the the male G spot (in the prostate). Does it mean your gay? Not at all. If a man likes to do it anal it's that it is different. It's tighter and a bit taboo (intriguing at the same time). A man is only gay if he enjoys dating, kissing and being intimate WITH A MAN.
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Question Asker Thx for the answers, so I shouldn't be scared too ask if she would be interested in trying it, anal I mean. Or maybe she has already done it before and is scared too tell me she likes it lol - 3 months ago
Answerer Don't be scared. The worst thing she could do is say no. - 3 months ago
temptationfalls You could also try fingering her other hole while you're having sex and if she likes it then ask for anal. but what shlie3 also said the worst thing that could happen is she says no. - 3 months ago
 

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NotSoBad
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NotSoBad (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
I think that your girlfriend doesn't want your friends to know she likes some ass play. I would suggest talking to her about it. If she says she really doesn't like then then don't do it. She'll miss it and want it again! lol
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lefthand (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
Ignore the social comment. The truth is what you do in bed. Many men and women enjoy anal play as part of there sexual experience (when it is provided and pleasant) but they don't admit it in public. Women in particular are prone to this because the enjoyment of sex is often thought to indicate low morals and indiscretion (I personally love women who love sex).

Enjoying anal sex doesn't make you gay. In fact, having sex with men doesn't make you gay either. What makes you gay is that you decide you are gay.
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sexwiseman
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
I think she is playing it safe to the masses and making it seem like she is a good old girl; wouldn't try anything that's taboo. I would say a smart move cause that kills the momentum for any type of gossip.
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p-guy
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p-guy (Age:Over 45)      When: 3 months ago
Kind of a stupid comment actually. Wanting to have anal sex with a woman is totally different than wanting it with a man. The asshole is very tight and feels really good to f. The fact that you enjoy her penetraing you is normal too. It does actually feel good becuase it stimulates your prostate gland.
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AJtogo
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AJtogo (Age:Over 45)      When: 3 months ago
I think she's keeping your sex life private. Anal sex is often viewed as being taboo and only done by sluts.
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