Dislike giving head?

Well, you might try talking to some girlfriends that are ok with it. Honestly I would not stick with a girl that wouldn't do it. It is simply better than anything else.
Don't feel bad if you ask that he wash first or anything. and it also helps if you try to have 2 way dialog. hey how does this feel, how about this. you know try different things out. perhaps if you get good feedback you'll start liking it more.

I am curious about what "fooling around" means to you? If these are casual happenings then I don't think that "giving head" should be part of it since you don't like doing it. If this is a significant other then ask yourself,is the act or the thought of the act that you don't like? Most people are lead to believe that oral-genital contact is unclean. There are more germs in the mouth and most people will even kiss a stranger under the right conditions. It is ultimately your choice. So either you are comfortable doing it or you are not there is no compensating. I hope this helps you and others who find themselves in a like situation.

If I were a girl I don't thinkI would like doing it either. However, one girl gave me a shower and washed my dick with soap and water before she did it to make sure it would be clean. It was our first time together, so I don't blame her for that. You can just give him a hand job. Do it with both hands and get plenty of baby oil, KY Jelly or hand lotion on your hands first. It will drive him crazy.

Wow don't ever worry about not doing something sexual you don't like with a boyfriend. Especially giving head. There's so many other things to do in a relationship besides that when fooling around. How about getting better at kissing sexy, or making out more or some massaging or foundling? You can do some of the other things mentioned by the other people that answered you, but I never suggest doing a bunch of sexual stuff just to please a boyfriend. A relationship should be so much more than that. It's so easy to just revert to thinking that a couple going together have to be doing all the sexual stuff in the book. or what's happening on porn. Just go out and do fun thing together that have meaning and leave lasting memories and really get to know each other rather than just each others bodies. .

handjobs are okay.

I could live with no head at all, but might be because I rather make her enjoy before I do so I know I'm in the right track.

I have met a number of woman who don't like giving head, so don't think it is unusual, I think the MOST important thing to remember about sex or intimacy is that BOTH people should enjoy it. it would suck (s'cuse the pun) if I know that my partner was doing something that they really didn't want to do. So as a man here are a few things that are also just as, and in most cases better then a BJ.

You can jerk the guy off. Its a very underestimated turn of for a guy, the main pleasure being that the guy knows he's not touching himself and its a huge turn on. While you doing it you might want to gentle tease his balls with the other hand.

Mirroring. This is a good technique in determining what the guy/girl wants. As most people will try stuff on you that they would actually like done to them. Like pinching nipples, kissing behind the ear, stroking the persons back. So if you notice what the guy is doing to you, and more importantly the speed and pressure, and you do the same thing back. Your onto a winner.

Again. Have fun and if your having fun the guy will always have fun

First, I don't think you should force yourself to do it to make the guy happy. I can't speak for all guys but when a look of dread crosses a girl's face and she has to hold her nose like she's about to make herself eat brussel sprouts, it's not exactly a turn-on. It might be interesting for you to think about why you hate it so much. Is it just evil and nasty to you because of a strict or oppressive upbringing? Or have you forced yourself to do it a few times and just built up a mental resistance to it? Or are you forcing yourself to do it to guys that you don't really care about that much? It's a pretty intimate act (or it can/should be, anyway)--maybe if you stop forcing yourself to do it with guys you don't really love, you'll find yourself WANTING to do it with someone you do. I hope you don't demand that the guy to go down on you if you won't reciprocate--although a generous guy would do it anyway. But you didn't ask that--so if you're looking for something that will impress the guy (and that's also NOT a reason to have sex of ANY kind, BTW) try working on your hand-job technique. Use lots of lube, use both hands, look him in the eye while you're doing it, massage his balls (gently, please, unless he asks for more), vary the speed of your strokes, tease him, twist your fist as you stroke, really explore him enthusiastically, maybe even consider slipping a finger in his ass (again, you need to be sure he's cool with that, and if giving head grosses you out, I'm thinking this may be a non-starter for you). Guys like to get head because it feels good but also because of the power trip (and all the porn we watch) but if they're honest, I'll bet most will admit that they enjoy a really good hand job at least as much or even more, and I'll bet most blow-jobs end up hand jobs anyway in order for the guy to come.

I know exactly what you mean, I gave head to this kid not too long ago and I really don't like it either. You just ahve to talk to him about it and make sure he understands that you don't like doing it, because from experience I'm completely done with the guy I did it too becasue he wasnt understanding of my feelings at all. So, guys like that are not worth holding onto. Guys that actually understand that its not something that every girl likes to do and are ok with you not doing it are deffinetly a type of guy to hold onto.

oral sex is not for everyone, there are guys who don't like going down on women either. I guess it works best if the other partner does not mind if their partner doesn't like to perform oral.

do what makes YOU comfortable. if you don't like it, be honest. if they get mad, then you should not be with someone that can't respect your feelings. go for a handjob or even a really sensual massage. just make sure you let them know you feeling on it B4 things too hot and heavy. good luck :D