my guys does it and pulls my hair which I love usually right before he comes. he's very gentle and because he's gentle I don't mind it or would've told him if I didn't. just wondering why some guys like to choke the girl a little?
i like it. my girlfriend was actually the one who got me started on it, she apparently already knew it was something she enjoyed, and when I'm having sex with her, especially in missionary, she'll want me to put my hand around her throat.something about having her air cut off just excites her, and that's okay! its okay to do what excites you, as long as its not at the expense of the other perosn. which its not, I love it too.and don't ask me why, I'm no psychologist :) but its thrilling, I tend to reach climax quicker when I'm holding her by the throat *shrugs* its exciting.
Unless they know their girl likes that kind of rough play and likes their guy to be dominant like that, those kind of guys probably do that because they know she is a short term girl for them. Like to them it's fun to kinda choke them and get them gagging and any girl that takes that is about as low as you can get. They're just getting their rocks off and the more they can humiliate the girl the better. It like makes them feel big, strong and proud of their manhood to know they got a girl to take that shit and they have no respect for a girl that does. .
I see your point but my guy knows I love it and we get rough but it doesn't mean at all that he's humiliating me I don't think, he treats me well otherwise. if he didn't treat me well otherwise than I would definitely see it your way. - 3 months ago
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Ok good, and thanks for your comment but you asked that question like you didn't know for sure why he liked doing that, so be aware of what I said. Most usually in a normal loving relationship, guys don't do that to girls they really love. How long have you been dating him or lived with him? - 3 months ago
yeah it's a little power trip. also if you seem to like it (and it seems a lots of girls sometimes like a bit of rough _play_) then he's playing that role a bit.
you never know, he might like the tables turned on him a bit, too.
I definitely like a little bit of rough play and the more we have sex the more he does it so he is just seeing what he can do with me and since I go along with it is why he is bringing a little more each time....thanks for the answer!! - 3 months ago
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Yep that sounds like it; it can be a bit odd to sit down & "discuss" this sort of stuff, as you know, so it's going to be a bit of trial & error, testing boundaries & so on. having said that if you feel things are starting to go a bit wild you should probably arrange a "safe" word where you agree to stop (make it something very obviously *not* something you might say in the course of play & is unlikely to sound like anything else eg "pyramid"). have fun ;) - 3 months ago
I like it, its hot. Its actually my fetish (the fear of being raped) but with someone you love. :D anyway. Its a dominance thing and a feeling of empowerment.
well, I wouldn't say it's all about dominance. it means he's turned on and feeling or giving pain is probably like an aphrodisiac, try pulling his hair a little and he might like that too.
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