Okay, so I've gone from my ex who had a very high sex drive to my current guy who has a really low sex drive. He tells me he's not really that interested in sex, and never really has been, which I find strange. We get on really well elsewhere, and when we do have sex he's fine with it, even if it's me starting it. The thing I've noticed is that it's the mechanics of sex, without the foreplay and the teasing before. He's had 6 other sexual partners so it's not a case of he's worried about how to have sex. He's been in prison a few times so I'm thinking maybe that's stopped him from thinking about sex alot, and that he views sex as a way for release and that's it. Though sometimes he does want me to orgasm and ask me what I like and that.
Do you think he's just insecure on what to do? Also when he's not been drinking he can come quickly ( like a few minutes) so is he embarrassed at this? He does get a bit frustrated by it, as I guess most men would!
Any tips on how I can get him to start enjoying sex? and to get him to view it as a fun thing to do, even the teasing before and during sex. He knows I like somethings, like kisses on my neck but he seems to forget about it and concentrate on actual sex, so is he just worried about coming soon?
i would say a low sex drive is hard to help but things you can do, is wear something sexy while around him.some nice lingerie or something revealing.or when you are out.whisper to him that ur not wearing any panties to get him going and thinking about u.send him naughty text messages when ur away so he will think of you there too and then when you are together he might jump on u.always head to start is good.or do a 69 so you get some action too.buy some toys to play with and add to the experience.go to the sex shop together and pick it out and see what he likes.or watch a porno together and act out the scenes.hope you have fun and he finds his sex drive.
Foreplay is a good way to get him started. Make him marvel at your overall beauty and splendor. Tease him, just enough to where he is about to jump you like a barbarian.
This is quite odd to me that a young man has a low sex drive. I personally am cursed with a Sex-Drive-From-Hell that can wipe out entire sororities and demand more. Am I normally so successful? Not even close.
You mentioned that he was in prison, this can be quite a traumatic experience on anyone that can mess up the brain bigtime. One of my cousins was in prison for 3 years during his youth and he is not quite the same person. Drinking just causes problems. Lots of problems.
yo if a guy doesn't like sex he mit be gay but I'm sure you no he's not so to get him to want to just do some sexy stripper stuff trust me my girl dose that some times I love it if he's comen to fast then that means he's probly thinken about what he's doin and he's probly really horny wich means he really likes u
damn girl I know how you feel, my man is the same exact way and no one really gave the right answer. he either has too much on his mind, depressed, or gay. talking to him will make him feel insecure, (already tried that, men don't like to "talk"). men that come quickly means that he hasn't had it in awhile or it was really good (the sex).
advice for sex: give him really good head, then just jump on it. pretty soon, he'll get the idea and want to do it more.
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