Good question. I found that one of my lovers did it best, by putting her hand on top of mine and showing me what she liked. it was also nice to feel that she was participating, she would speed up her hand when she wanted to and slow down when she wanted. sort of took the guess work out of the whole thing.
Also make sure you communicate about what you like, or ask him what he is feeling like while fingering you. that should turn you on a bit.
I think its important that if it starts getting sore or he is doing something you don't like, you need to tell him, after all he is doing it to make you feel good.
Well, when I'm doing it, I like to hear the girl kinda moan and like breath heavily letting me know that she's enjoying it. Then again, when I'm fingering a girl, its nice getting the favor returned. When I'm fingering her, I like her to like slowly jerk me off at the same time. This usually works out when the two are sitting upright. I guess it just feels good for the both of you. I mean PERSONALLY, I get pretty bored after awhile just fingering a chick because I have to WAIT for my turn ya know? I guess its selfish, but really it feels good for the both of you and it connects the two on a different level because you're both having a good time being pleasured, and also pleasuring your partner. That's what I think a girl should do.
Sit back and enjoy it. Let us know you are enjoying it. It is okay to writhe those hips, make those moaning noises, even put your hands on ours and pull them tighter against you. Tell us to go faster or move slower. It is all about what makes you hotter and gets you off. If you want to come more than once, then encourage us to keep going after the first one. I'm sure I'm not only speaking for myself when I say that nothing makes me hotter than hearing my woman get off. There is something so incredibly sexy about a woman having an orgasm. The thrill that comes from watching her get there from my hands is wild. So just lay back and let yourself go for me and enjoy the ride. Cause all I have on my mind is giving you the most pleasure I can.
This is exactly dead on the spot. I feel the same way when I'm fingering a girl; the more they voice their pleasure, the hornier and happier I get. - 3 months ago
do guys like for a girl to do while he fingers her?
we like her to enjoy it and then express that enjoyment in what everway she is comfortable and happy with.
footnote: later on you can do dirty talk, which is a sort of exception cause its a little forced but still sexy, but early in a relationship communicate pleasure and enjoyment the way you like to.
If it were me, what I would like is for the girl to show what they do/dont like by talking/moaning or grabbing my other hand tighter when it feels good. the best thing is to let him know that you are enjoying the way he (or she?) is making you feel.
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