Do girls secretly want guys?

I've actually thought about this. Like. I've wondered if guys have ever thought about me while masturbating. especially my boyfriend. I hope he does! I think it would be flattering and totally hot.

well, yeah. definately. but then I visualize it and I feel all creepy. like, I'm not supposed to see that. O__-

but sure, I'd be totally flattered. unless the guy is really sketchy, then I'll probably cry.

I like it when it's someone I'm attracted to. I still kind of like it when it's someone I'm neutral about. I'm not crazy about it when it's someone that really grosses me out.

A couple years ago my company had a beach day. It was fun, we barbecued and played on the beach all day, and it was nice to see people in a different context. There was a girl running around taking pictures the whole time, which I always find a little annoying, but didn't think much of it. Later I found out that she had given all the pictures of me, in a bikini, to the extremely creepy guy who was always approaching me at work. Then every time we had a company event where there was booze he would start telling me how grateful he was for beach day and to me for wearing a bikini. One time he even admitted that he jerked off to those pictures all the time. This grossed me out a bit. It's not just that he's unattractive, ugly people have a right to jerk off to. He's just one of those guys who's always just totally straight-forward and gross around any woman he meets, and the idea of him at home, looking at all those revealing pictures of me and stroking himself just makes me squirm.

For the most part, though, I don't mind. I've been totally flattered when guys I ended up dating told me that before we went out they had jerked off to me. That was neat to hear, and since I was attracted to them the idea of them stroking themselves while thinking of me is just complimentary and hot. So I don't know, maybe I'm just being unfair to the guy at work. He's doing the same thing that those guys did, really.

Sure why not .

haha I don't think any girl sits around thinking "I wish he would jerk off to me", but um its not a bad thing if a guy thinks a girls hot enough to jerk off to them

Haha yeah I guess! I can't think of anything more flattering lol.

mmm well I dnt think about that so um not me

my girl always asks me to

I'm really curious to see how this turns out lol

dude I hope so