We are both virgins and she decided she was ready. We were all set and I'm trying to get it in but she kept like freaking out and pulling away. She's under the impression its gonna hurt like hell, she's probably right.
I could not get my damn "thing" in at all. I was close once and she yelled pretty bad. She's so tight. I've been fingering her for well over a year though.
I think its one of a few things:
- She was resisting way too much, maybe not ready? Worried about the pain! (This was all her idea)
- Maybe I'm just awful, and can't guide my penis.
- or I just got to suck it up and force it in?
- she's super humanly tight? I could just not get it in!
I don't know what to do, we didn't use any lube. (I know stupid. we'll use that next time)
any advice/experience would be appreciated!
* When I say she was freaking out I mean that in a humours way. She was pretty much laughing the whole time we had problems.
First off, use a condom! Most condoms come lubricated. It'll make it easier. Second of all, take it slow, plenty of foreplay to relax her more. It helps. Third of all, it's good when you laugh, don't be embarrassed. Just let loose and have fun. Be gentle, it'll hurt her but it shouldn't be terrible. FOrth of all, make sure you both are really ready. Make sure you won't regret it later. And be safe!
Relax, that is the first key. When you both are ready then let your emotions go. Be sure to use protection, and try some lube. Maybe if you both just start with getting to know each other physically by touch and work on from there. This is between the both of you-there is no competition. Remember, that when you try to hurry, things don't turn out right. Good Luck!
Just relax and comfort her like kissing and whispering her passionate words to make her relax and makeing out then start the dirty work. And the rest is yours. Tell her if it won't work, you'll stop immediately and it's going to be all right and it's not going to as painful as she thinks and just try once, ok? . Just calm her down. It won't be enjoyable or else.
i doesn't hurt that much. and it will hurt more if she is yelling and not relaxed. I relaxed completely, and can truthfully say it hurt for like a second. not even a pain just being slightly uncomfortable. its different for everyone though. but she is definately not way to tight, its because she wasnt relaxed and therefore the muscles tighten up. I have a suggestion. maybe when she is completely ready, let her go on top and let her guide you. that way she will be plenty more relaxed and know exactly what is she is doing.
I had this exact same thing the first two times my girlfriend and I tried. We had th exact same reaction, even using a lubed condom. Get lube - and it'll work so much better.
ur really a lucky guy first fling on bed was comical, and she was super tight, laughing all thru want else do you need man, tell her its not gonna hurt but you shall show her heaven given a chance i thin she's already on line jus go for another fling somday n jus blast thru her enough of fingerin, if you can the whole thin once why tak it piece by piece
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