My husband is deployed for the next 9 months. It's been 3 so far, but I'm starting to go nuts! I'll be honest and say he's the first man I have ever been with, but I found sex sooo wonderful! I had always heard that for women it's never that great and it's hard for us to orgasm. Took a few times, but I probably orgasm every time now. Anyways, on to my question. Is it like, really bad to masturbate? I mean, like with toys? My husband keeps telling me to get a vibrator or a dildo, and the vibrator doesn't sound so bad. But a dildo? I don't know it just seems to weird to stick a pretend penis in me! Will it really be almost the same? I almost feel dirty for even asking! But we've got 6 more months until R&R and them 3 more months after that! I feel like I'm gonna go completely NUTS here! Every little thing turns me on and I'm unbelievably horny! I need to like, get my fix or something haha. Not that I'm gonna turn to another guy, but I need some serious help here!
Get a vibrator or a dildo.or both. He wants to make sure you are somewhat satisfied when he's gone. When he gets back he can use it on you whilst you are doing the nasty. Maybe pound you with it while eating you. He's given you the ok so just jump in and do it. I wouldn't go for much bigger than him though. May get intimidated. Course you can always find a big d*ck civi? Stay safe!
oh my god.buy a vibrator. nothing at all wrong with them and they are great.serious go buy it now now now.u will love it especially if ur horny.or else just do it on ur own.but there is nothing wrong with mastrubating.
It is shameful not to masturbate. Everyone should do it often. Get the little vibrator and when you are using it, you will know if you want the dildo also.
It's great that you are being faithful! There is nothing wrong with masturbating anytime. You can go to a sex shop & look for what you think that you may like. Don't be embarrassed they sell these all day every day. You can always say it's for a bachelorette party,if that makes you feel better. You can also order them over the Internet. I usually only buy from a place that has an 800 telephone number.
I agree, toys are definitely the way to go. I have heard that there is such a thing as over doing it, but I suppose the phrase "Always in moderation" does apply to everything. So with that in mind, stroke on!
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