I have been arguing with my roommate for months now on this subject and I would like some answers. He refuses to keep condoms in his room and opts to keep them either in the bathroom or in my room (he does buy his own) because he believes if a girl finds them in his room he'll come across as a player or a sleazebag and it will mess up his chances and that way he still has the ability to say he got it from me. I, on the other hand prefer to keep them in my room cause I think it goes to show that I am thinking of more then myself and keep on top of the situation. Girls? Your view
He should keep them in his room. And if he doesn't want to look sleazy he could try looking in a couple of places for them rather than heading for them straight away to make it look like they're not in constant use.
If he has to ask you for a condom it would make me wonder how many times he asked and you were out. It would also make me wonder if he was inexperienced for lack of preparedness. I would be cautious of a man that had to hunt down protection.
I think he made a smart move hiding the condoms from the girls. they will think that he wants to have sex, and a lot of girls will be turned off by that.
he should keep them in his room. what's the point of making up stories? I wouldn't think any less of a guy if he keep condom in his room. I'd think of him as normal.
I think if I didn't see condoms in my boyfriends room, maybe the first time it'd be cool by me, specially if he made up that little story about borrowing, which makes a clear statement how guys can be slick. But if it were a daily thing I'd definitely be concerned.
I agree with you. he should keep them in his room. it looks better on you that you keep yours in your room because it shows you are being responsible and ready. and that you are thinking about her too not just yourself., trying to be safe looks a lot better then "asking your roommate" for some. it looks like he's unprepared. and that's not cool or attractive at all. also I personally don't need his roommates to know that we are going to be having sex. its our bussiness not anyone elses.
I would think maybe you should get a female room mate, get her tested and on the pill and forget the condom issue. :) OK, I would say he has a right to keep them in the bathroom, but not in your room.
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