I love them all. Yes, I prefer that they have been taken care of which doesn't necessarily mean they have been shaved or even trimmed. There is a great book by Nick Carass called petals (
link which is a pictorial of nothing but womens vulvas. I would highly recommend getting that book and seeing how different women are from each other and yet how beautiful they all are too.
You will see that there is nothing to be self conscious about and that if a guy ever has a problem with something then he is either very inexperienced or gay.